External signs of a married man. How to understand by external signs that your loved one is leading you by the nose? The girl leads the guy by the nose
In any textbook on psychology, you can find that if a person now and then touches his nose, rubs his eyelid, rubs his earlobe or scratches his neck - all this suggests that he is trying to deceive you………. And if a man does this when talking to a woman? A man is a man too! Here! Here!
A man is a completely incomprehensible worldly being. To please him, women so often rack their brains. Constantly inside there are questions about how to take possession of the person you like. How to behave at a meeting. How to start a conversation. And many more similar questions. Many scientists and psychologists struggled with the question of how to capture male attention at first sight. In the world, eleven main signals have been deduced, symbolizing the concepts of whether you like it or not. So let's get started.
Signal number one. " May be".
When talking with him, he begins to touch his tie, pinch the tip of his nose and earlobes, while constantly looking at you. You are definitely interested in him.
Signal number two. "I'm not trying to lie."
When talking, the man's palms are turned, which means that everything he says is true.
Signal number three. "Desire to be closer."
If your interlocutor cautiously moves towards you, it means that his interest is increasing.
Signal number four. "As if he took and hugged."
There is a conversation, and the interlocutor casually put his hand on the back of your chair, then expect future hugs.
Signal number five. "Of course I like you."
Touches your palm, forearm, elbow. It means that you are very interesting and attractive to him.
Signal number six. "I want to please you."
At the sight of a woman, a man begins, puts his hair or clothes in order. He suddenly combs his hair and shakes off the dust, which means he is showing off.
Signal number seven "I want you."
The man put his hands on his hips, trying to show how sexy he is. " I do not want anything". When talking with you, a man closes his mouth with his finger, which means that he did not like you and he is trying to get away from you.
Signal number eight. "I want to get away quickly."
When talking, a man, in addition to closing his mouth, also pulls his ears, as if he wants to run away from you.
Signal number nine. "I'm not interested in you."
He keeps on, when talking, he constantly bends over, then there is nothing to catch with him.
Signal number ten. "I'm fine alone."
Beware if a man hides his hands in his pockets, arms and legs are crossed, there will obviously be no conversation.
Signal number eleven. " I'm leaving".
Just arrived and immediately ran away. The man himself is strange. Think about whether you should communicate with such a person at all.
P.S. Q.E.D. Men should not be trusted...
by Notes of the Wild MistressDo you want to know if your partner will deceive your expectations? Answer "yes" or "no" to the statements below and you will get the answer you are looking for.
Test questions:
1. When I love, I don't expect my lover to treat me as romantically as I treat him.
2. I feel disappointed when a man stops showing me those little signs of attention that reflect true love.
3. I only feel good with men who are more educated and earn more than me.
4. It is unlikely that I will lose respect for a man who does not feel strong and confident with me.
5. When a man is less interested in our relationship than I am, I feel unwanted.
6. I'm not annoyed that my boyfriend is not able to protect me.
7. I'm not going to have anything to do with a man who allows someone to command him or use him for his own purposes.
8. I don't like it when I feel that a man is afraid of something.
9. It doesn’t annoy me that I myself am always forced to offer my beloved to have dinner together or go somewhere for the weekend.
10. I am more tolerant of the manifestations of emotions in women than in men.
11. I am not able to treat a man well if he is educated worse than me.
12. In love, I never rush.
13. Most of the men I know are stronger than me.
14. I must admit that I am somewhat embarrassed when a man is more emotional, more sensitive than me.
15. I do not resent that my beloved needs his friends as much as I do.
16. Actually, I think that men like to lead women by the nose.
17. It annoys me when a man ignores fashion and does not know how to dress.
18. I don't care if a man doesn't have self-confidence.
19. I expect no more from a man than from a woman.
20. Actually, I like it when a man is stronger and more experienced than me.
21. I do not particularly believe that my loved one knows how to behave in a dangerous or other emergency situation.
22. I prefer strong and reserved men.
23. As our relationship develops, I have some disappointment in my friend. I would like him to change and understand my needs better.
24. I don't expect the "man of my life" to look at everything through my eyes, and I'm not disappointed because of this.
25. My father was strong and talented, he was successful. And he gave me everything I ever needed.
Test results:
Count yourself by one point for each positive answer to the following questions: 2, 3, 5, 7, 8, 10, 11, 13, 14, 16, 17, 20, 22, 23, 25 . Count yourself by one point if you answered "no" to the following questions: 1, 4, 6, 9, 12, 15, 18, 19, 21, 24 .
Sum up the scores.
0-4 points. You have a great sense of self-worth. You are so confident in yourself that you perceive men correctly, realistically, without illusions. Men, without a doubt, feel easy and natural with you.
5-7 points. You accept the basic realities of men's behavior, but there is also a hint of your disappointment and partial rejection of them. It is possible that your need for a man who meets your desires and expectations can lead you to gradual disappointment.
8-11 points. Your illusions about men are as great as disappointment in them is possible. The expectations you bring to your union put it at risk, causing men to feel irritated and uncomfortable.
12 points and above. You have a misconception about men - and it gives rise to serious problems. Men will feel uncomfortable with you, and as they get to know you and your opinion better, they will treat you with wariness, distrust and rejection.
For several months, but the relationship has not moved forward? You give her flowers, small gifts, take her to restaurants. Does she accept it but doesn't take any action to get closer to you?
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How to understand that a girl is dynamite? She doesn’t care about you, but for some reason she can’t say it directly?
You're wasting your time, it's time to close shop. You will never be together.
10 Signs She's Dynamite You:
1. She loves you, but in a “different way.”
Every girl has a million varieties of this very love.
Sometimes a girl has a huge feeling of gratitude for what you do for her. And to keep this bounty auction going, she uses a very cunning ploy to bind you even more to her.
She starts telling you how wonderful you are and that you have a special place in her life. If you are in love with her, it may seem that she has just signed her feelings in return.
If a girl adds some kind of convention to each of her declarations of love, for example, "I love you very much as a person" or "I love you like a brother". You can immediately end any relationship with her.
She makes it clear that you do not shine. The girl does not care, she does not see a man in you, she has no sexual attraction to you. And she just likes to spend time with you sometimes.
2. She is not ready for a serious relationship.
The girl constantly tells how good it is to be alone. How much she values her freedom and is not yet ready to let someone into her life. Don't expect your courtship to change anything.
If you heard such words from her, this does not mean that the girl is not ready for a relationship in principle. It only means that the girl is not ready for a relationship with you.
You can't be ready or not ready for a relationship. She either falls in love with you and scores on troubles, or stupidly leads you by the nose.
So the scheme is quite simple. She tells you that she is not ready for a serious relationship yet, you wish her good luck and disappear from her life. All.
3. She almost never calls you.
6. She wants to introduce you to another girl.
What confirmation are you waiting for?
Do you really think she's doing this because you're already close enough? And she decided to introduce you to her close people? Or what comforting motives for her strange behavior do you invent for yourself?The girl will do her best to help you find another option to which you could switch your attention. Tries to fuse you.
Here you have to be very naive not to understand such open hints. You can send her to hell, or you can accept the offer. Who knows, maybe she will actually introduce you to a good girl?
7. She wants to be with you only in those moments when you move away from her.
She is already used to the fact that you care about her. You spend your free time with her, pamper her with gifts and surprises. And she accepts it all condescendingly, as if she is doing you a favor.
And at that moment, when you are tired of it, and you decide to give up and score on her, she begins to show activity. She calls you and offers to meet, says that she missed you and stuff like that. You lead and run to her again.
This story is as old as the world, but how true is it? Yes, she suddenly begins to appreciate you and your attention. But think about why she began to do this only at the moment when you finally decided to quit everything?
Is it because he simply considers you his property? And is it not because it is convenient for her to have such a person with her? Is it because she is pleased with male attention and attitude as a goddess?
8. She never has time for you.
As soon as you invite her to meet, you hear unconvincing excuses in response. Pseudo-employment only says that in fact she has no desire to meet with you.
You can put yourself in her place. No matter how busy you are, if a cool young lady offers to meet you, you will find time.
Question to a psychologist
Good evening. I really need the advice of a qualified specialist, since I can’t figure it out myself, I really hope for your help! Thank you in advance! I’m 29 years old, a fairly attractive girl is divorced and has a child. he is 30 years old. He turned out to be married and had a son of 6 years old. Initially, he did not hide this from me right away, but the communication was kind of on a friendly note and I didn’t really care. It turned out that we were from the same city, but he is now working under a contract in Poland, this is his last contract, he plays out for another year and returns home. At first, we just called on Skype and corresponded for days on end (his family does not always live with him), then he came home for one day and we met after sitting a couple of hours in a cafe and talking just on we were friendly glad to see each other in real life! then he left again and communication through the phone again went on. everything would be fine, but 5 months have already passed and I’m starting to become attached to him. he is very good and comfortable with him! he is kind, cheerful, and most importantly, constantly in my life, even at such a great distance! he doesn’t call me at most for a couple of days when he plays. in two weeks he wants to come home again for a couple of days and wants to see you! I don’t understand what to do next?! I understand that he has been married and has been around for a long time for about 8 years. Perhaps everything is fine with him and in the family, I also understand a hundred, maybe I’m just having fun! although on the other hand I don’t understand what? after all, we rarely see each other really! but he is regularly interested in my life! often says serious things, kind of joking, that they don’t mind being happy ... that my daughter wants like me ... Etc. But he doesn’t say anything seriously on the topic of relationships all the time, all the slightest conversations are translated into humor! It’s very difficult for me, he says that we are friends ... also with a smile on his face) but I understand a hundred at this age friendship is absurd! I don’t know what to do. ..this person becomes dear to me and I felt very good with him and well ... but I don’t want to open up to him because I can’t trust him. I’m not the only one with him. But I don’t have enough strength to interrupt this communication! Is there a way out of this situation? Can I have a serious talk with him? Please help me figure it out.
Hello Svetlana!
please help me figure it out.
he is regularly interested in my life!
he doesn’t say anything seriously about relationships all the time, he translates all the slightest conversations into humor
says we are friends.
From his point of view, Svetlana, you are friends. And, it seems, he does not want to go beyond the bounds of friendship.
but I understand a hundred at this age friendship is absurd
Maybe, Svetlana, it makes sense to deal with the elimination of emotional dependence?
Good luck to you, Svetlana, and mutual love!
Sincerely, Omsk psychologist Nesterova Larisa Vasilievna.
Good answer 3 bad answer 0Sveta... There is a simple rule of life: if it's not yours, don't touch it!! Now, when you are involved in a relationship, it certainly hurts to part.. But just imagine that this is your dear and beloved husband, you have a child, and suddenly a certain virtual girl appears.. How would you feel?! It would be much more painful for you ... And nature, unfortunately, can leave you with such a focus .. The boomerang effect is called .. Svetochka, it’s ridiculous to be “friends” with a married man, you’re right .. And there is only one way / to leave .. Not for him ! For you!! You are wasting your one and only life on NOT your man .. And he will never be yours .. Have pity on yourself, your energy and your strength .. They can be spent on yourself, your beloved, and on YOUR beloved .. And not on someone else .. Find strength in yourself, take care of yourself ..
Polonskaya Olga Borisovna, psychologist Nizhny Novgorod
Good answer 2 bad answer 2Some men take relationships lightly. They do not even think about the fact that they can hurt a woman and offend. If you respect and value yourself, then you must learn to recognize those men who simply do not need a relationship with you. Yes, it will be difficult, but you must love yourself so that others feel the same for you! So, remember these 7 things that give away men who do not want to build a relationship with you.
1. He flirts with you but doesn't take the plunge.
Coquetry is not the beginning of a relationship. If a man flirts and flirts with you, but at the same time does not invite you on dates, does not take a number, and generally does not take any worthwhile steps towards a relationship, then he is not serious.
2. He tells you in plain text that he doesn't want a relationship, but you keep seeing him.
You hope, but he doesn't care! If a man does not even hide his unwillingness to build strong relationships, then you should not waste time and hope for "what if". Appreciate yourself and your time. Perhaps somewhere nearby your soul mate is waiting for you!
3. He says he has never been in love
And then you turn on the "love project" mode. You want to prove to him and to yourself that he simply did not meet THE ONE, and you (of course!) are exactly that. There are exceptions, but as a rule, if a man has been with you for several months, but still says that he does not experience any feelings other than sympathy, then you are unlikely to be able to fix it.
4. He writes to you, but does not ask for a meeting.
In the modern world, love correspondence can be taken seriously only when it is already a stable long-distance relationship. If he does not make any attempts to bring the relationship beyond the scope of SMS, then you should not waste your time on him.
5. He recently divorced, does not want a serious relationship, but he is interested in where your communication will lead
Egoist! Why should you be his guinea pig? Doesn't want a relationship, do you? So, find the man who shares your desires. Without it, it will be difficult.
6. He doesn't want to meet you outside of the house.
Here you should think, what if he has a wife or a girlfriend? No one says that you need to go to a restaurant every evening, but not going out at all together is strange.
7. You always make appointments because he doesn't.
Did you ever think that he just didn't care? Don't try to build a house if you don't even have building materials. Make sure that this relationship is not only for you. Let him appreciate you, and not come to everything ready.