How to become very popular
Why do people become popular? Is this something they teach in school or is there a certain pattern that guarantees a person’s popularity in the future? Of course not! Just as there is no quality in a person’s character that will ensure his popularity. For a woman, popularity is no less important than for a man. Therefore, decide for yourself in what environment you are going to become popular, and act!
Popularity varies:
You can receive it automatically (for example, by inheritance from famous parents);
Earn it with your own labor or win it back.
One more example of automatic popularity can be given. The girl who dresses the best in class, has cool gadgets, a fashionable haircut, etc. She has a strikingly different lifestyle from her classmates and automatically becomes popular. But this type of popularity does not last. They achieve it through their own efforts. Waves of positivity, irresistibility and sociability should hover around you. They should talk about you and know you by sight!
Be yourself!
This is the basic principle of outstanding, . A truly popular girl goes her own way.
Look for those character traits or advantages in yourself that set you apart from your environment:
Wit;
Success in sports or other activities;
His own style, which others have already begun to imitate.
Find out this, and build your popularity on your own advantages. Plagiarism has never made anyone a successful person.
First impression.
How people remember you when they first meet you will determine whether you can become popular in this group or not. You have the only opportunity to remain a cool girl in the eyes of your new acquaintances. Don't be modest or act too provocative. Find golden mean. Pay attention to the kind of society you are going to appear in. Rehearse behavior in front of the mirror so that it corresponds to these people's ideas about decency.
When you find yourself in a team, don’t be shy to attract the attention of those people you like. Start a casual conversation, ask for a phone number, etc. Don't forget that it will never arouse interest. To show how outgoing you are, act friendly with people around you.
Eye contact.
Do not lower your eyes to the floor, this indicates that you are very shy and unsure of yourself. If you greet every person with your head up and a smile on your face, people will immediately assume that you are the popular girl in their group. When you talk to someone you are talking to, look them in the eyes and listen carefully. This will tell you that you are a wise girl who knows how. Use the following tips:
Give a smile to everyone you interact with. To make your smile look dazzling, use special teeth whitening products. If you have problems with crooked teeth, contact a dental clinic. They will help you straighten your teeth and whiten them.
Even if the past day was stressful and did not bring much joy. Remember that everyone is looking at you, so you need to glow with joy and ladylikeness.
Personal hygiene.
Even a sociable and smiling person will not cause delight if he smells of sweat or is dressed unkemptly. Personal hygiene rules are not difficult to remember:
Take a shower twice a day - morning and evening;
Brush your teeth twice a day - morning and evening;
Wash your hair not according to your own scheme, but when necessary;
Monitor the condition of the skin of the face and body. There are many ways to tidy up the skin, including traditional medicine;
Use deodorants and perfumes. Remember, it is better for you to smell clean than to “clog” the sour smell of an unwashed body with a large number of aromas.
In addition, an excess of even this itself can also cause disgust among others.
As strange as it may sound, a razor or depilator is one of a girl’s best friends. Shaving your armpits is a must at any time of the year. In summer, overgrown armpits do not look aesthetically pleasing. In winter, we sweat in warm clothes, and armpit hair absorbs bad smell, and he becomes even stronger.
You can shave your legs only in the warm season, when you wear short dresses. In winter they will not be visible under trousers.
Listening skills.
This is one of the most important communication skills. Listen carefully to what they tell you. Try not to be distracted even if the topic of conversation is not interesting to you. Before entering into a conversation, the interlocutor. Learn to do it correctly. If in front of you is a person whose hair has been in need of a haircut for a long time, do not tell him that he looks great. Find another benefit.
Express your thoughts clearly and speak clearly.
If you speak loudly enough, without rushing, and without swallowing the endings in your words, you will show others that you are confident. Unconfident girls cannot become popular. If you are given the floor, speak clearly and slowly, loudly (but do not shout) and intelligibly.
By the way, do not engage in conversation on topics that are far from your understanding. Everyone will quickly realize that you don't understand the topic, and you will look funny.
Nurturing confidence.
To become a confident girl, forget how you judge yourself. Remember, every female will list to you what she sees in her own figure, eye color or ear shape. But the moment you see these girls in a circle of people, you understand that they do not show their complexes in any way. You are neither fat nor thin, you have a wonderful figure and wonderful ears that stick out a little, but it looks very cute. Love yourself as you are, with your strengths and weaknesses. If you don't like the shape of your eyes, choose your makeup to eliminate this flaw. Cover your ears, and in order to get rid of a double chin, there are many exercises and diets.
Cultivating style.
When choosing clothes, match your age category. If you are 19 years old, then you have already grown up from the cartoon Dasha the traveler, but you are still far from being Baba Kapa. Experiment with makeup and hairstyles, choose accessories and jewelry. Stylish girls create themselves. They are always on the lookout, they are interested in experimenting with their appearance and clothing. Don't see yourself in some clothes? Call a friend and go shopping together. Take a bold step - change your image radically. Moreover, several times in a row.
Walk towards your popularity purposefully, in small steps. Step by step you will achieve the fact that people will begin to pay attention to you and imitate you. As soon as you realize that they are asking for your opinion, asking for advice or inviting you to all interesting events, know that popularity is knocking on your door. Now we need to stay on this wave. Don't stop there, and don't think that once you've won recognition, you can use it forever. Maintain your image, become the object of attention, sighs and even gossip from spiteful critics.
And yet, popularity and idolatry are two different things. To become popular in society, you must be a friendly, easy-going and inquisitive person. Make new friends, communicate with people, get involved in sports. To become an interesting conversationalist, be sure to develop intellectually: go to the theater and cinema. Stay up to date with the latest in fashion, art and literature.
14 March 2014, 17:38 Many media companies are using the phenomenon of popularity, creating attractive images and earning millions of dollars from them. Knowledge will help us on the path to popularity general principles human psychology and the main Internet resources that open free access to our “creations” for millions of viewers.The content of the article:
There are many forms of holding public events, the main purpose of which is to meet new interesting people and establish useful contacts. These include conferences, parties, presentations, and club get-togethers. However, even having met a useful and interesting person, we can easily not interest him and miss good chances for a career and decent earnings.How to become the center of everyone's attention and the “persona grata” at any party? Here practical advice and recommendations:
1. Create an interesting image. It shouldn't be bright and flashy. Such an image is more likely to cause negativity among others (which, by the way, is used by some public people who want to make money on their notoriety). It should attract precisely with its inner depth, grace and simplicity. It is not at all necessary to dress up in an expensive suit from a famous fashion designer and insanely expensive jewelry. This won’t surprise anyone now. Maximum simplicity combined with taste and utmost accuracy is what people react to. Light, unobtrusive perfume and almost imperceptible. Simple but elegant clothes, neat and discreet hairstyle.
Glasses with the right frames will give you a wonderful charm. If you can see perfectly without glasses, glasses can be ordered without diopters.
An original accessory will add special charm to you in the eyes of the public. Not an insanely expensive iPhone or a glamorous dog under your arm. You will be interested in theatrical binoculars or an elegant brooch inherited from your great-grandmother, an original fan, a cigarette in a long holder - everything that your imagination is capable of. The main thing is that the accessory fits harmoniously into your image.
2. Develop your own style of behavior and communication. There is no need to play someone else’s role that doesn’t fit well with your personality. Don't try to appear more successful, better, more beautiful, and smarter than you are ordinary life. Those around you will immediately notice any note of falsehood, pretense and mannerism. This will push them away faster than you can establish more or less close contact.
Interlocutors are attracted by simplicity and naturalness in communication. Speak only on topics that are interesting to you personally, in which you have some knowledge, and can enrich your interlocutor with new knowledge.
Find your own unique character trait, personality, zest that will attract others to you, and will not force you to strain yourself in attempts to portray someone who, in principle, you are not.
Once you do this, you will be pleasantly surprised at how willingly people will reach out to you.
3. Smile. Do not put on a rubber smile in the “Hollywood” style. Moreover, you shouldn’t smile all the time. This will cause confusion among others, and perhaps some may think that you are mocking them.
Smile only when making eye contact with someone around you. Try to make your smile look natural, relaxed and friendly.
React with a smile to the jokes of your interlocutors. When communicating with a person, depict a slight half-smile, indicating your friendly disposition.
Be careful with your laughter. Loud and harsh laughter is perceived by people as a manifestation of rudeness and disrespect. As a result, you begin to irritate others, which will add to your popularity, but with a minus sign. Laughing should be polite, quiet and to the point. For example, in response to a joke from your interlocutor or accompanying your own funny story.
4. Speak quietly. Some people try to laugh loudly and talk emotionally in order to attract the attention of others, like, look what a cheerful, sociable and sociable person I am. Often the reaction of others is exactly the opposite. Your “loud” behavior will be perceived as a sign of extreme bad manners, and the list of potential interlocutors and would-be (or could be) admirers will rapidly decrease.
If you need to talk to a person located at a considerable distance, you should never shout to him from afar. It’s better to come up and chat calmly at a comfortable distance.
5. React to compliments with restraint. Often, both women and men begin to react violently to compliments, trying with all their appearance to make it clear that they always look like this, and this is their natural state. Do not belittle your merits, but also do not attribute false shortcomings to yourself. Smile naturally and thank the person for the compliment. This will be a worthy and impressive response to courtesy, since it is an element of politeness in communication.
6. Try to be an interesting conversationalist. Here the breadth of your natural horizons and the degree of your reading will help you. The ability to maintain an easy and relaxed conversation on any topic will show you as an intelligent and valuable interlocutor. Do not try to prove at any cost that you are right, even if your interlocutor is wrong a hundred times. A person has the right to be mistaken, and flaunting his wrongness can cause him deep irritation and subsequent refusal to continue communicating with you.
You should also not talk about things about which you have only vague ideas. In conversation with knowledgeable person your incompetence will quickly become obvious to him, and you will lose value in his eyes as an adequate interlocutor. Nobody wants to communicate with idle talkers.
7. Keep the conversation going with questions. The interlocutor will be pleased if you express interest in the conversation and in him personally. Call him by name, the person likes the way it sounds, and he subconsciously becomes more inclined towards you.
Find out about his occupation, hobbies, praise him for some merits or achievements.
If the interlocutor sees that he is indifferent to you as a person, he will quickly lose interest in the conversation and switch to others present.
8. Keep it a little suspenseful. Don’t put all the information about yourself out there. A person is always attracted to understatement and mystery. However, if the interlocutor asks a question concerning you, answer as sincerely and honestly as possible.
Don't overload your interlocutor unnecessary information which doesn't interest him. You should also not start complaining about life and dump your everyday and family problems on a stranger. No one is interested in other people's difficulties.
Popularity on social networks
VKontakte.ru
1. Earn credibility in any field of knowledge. Select a topic that interests you and find like-minded people online. In the process of communicating with them, you will learn a lot of unique and useful information, which will give you the opportunity to become a recognized expert in your chosen information field. By sharing your experience and helping people solve their issues, you will earn a lot of popularity points. You will also make a lot of useful contacts that will be useful to you in the future.2. Visualize your posts. An original photo or video will not only add representativeness to your information, but will also evoke positive emotions among network users, provoking numerous “likes” and reposts.
3. Stay in the information trend. People are mainly concerned about information that concerns socially significant events that are exciting the Internet. However, it should be taken into account that there are not many truly long-lasting trends, and it is necessary to change the topic of posts to a new trend in time. Keep your nose to the wind and your ears open.
4. Work with exclusive. By being the primary source of original content, you will earn your credibility and the desire of the “residents” of the network to visit your page again and again in search of fresh and “hot” content.
5. Promote your content. Even the most exclusive content can be so specific that it will not resonate well with most visitors. To update the topic, you can entice users with provocative questions.
You can also use keywords in your distribution by placing them in a specially designated place. This will allow search engines to quickly find your material.
And, of course, you can use your friends’ likes and recommendations to promote your content.
6. Be as brief as possible. The huge volume of content on the Internet necessitates short, catchy headlines and small, compact texts. This will ensure that your content is fully read and assessed for its usefulness.
Instagram.com
1. “Catching” photographs. Each of your photographs should have a “zest”, a special charm that will not leave the viewer indifferent. Really dose interesting photos. Don't post them all at once. Otherwise they may remain unappreciated.2. Use hashtags actively. It's real effective method attract a specific target audience to your photos. And if your photos meet the expectations of your guests, they will become yours forever.
3. Please indicate geographical coordinates places in the photo. Users are curious to see places they've already been to and compare their impressions of those places with the impressions evoked by your photos.
4. Establish friendly contacts with users with similar interests. Help in promoting their pages will not go unnoticed. As a thank you, they will help you promote your content.
5. Keep your profile open. This is the main condition for access to your content and future recognition of you as a photography guru.
6. Link your account to accounts of other social networks. This will greatly increase the likelihood of people visiting your page from third-party sources.
7. Learn from Instagram gurus. They give you the opportunity to take a piece of their success and promote your content in original ways.
8. Do original photograph for profile. This will become an “anchor” for random passers-by.
9. Use for processing photos most popular filters.
In order to gain fame on this portal, it is enough to post original and unique videos. In this case, chance plays a big role. A well-directed and elegantly staged long video can only be watched by your subscribers. And a ridiculous three-second farce can break viewing records.
The main condition here is the choice of video topic and regular posting of original content. Your fans will definitely find you.
Twitter.com
The main conditions for gaining popularity in this microblog are:1. Provoke people, ask pressing questions, force them to comment and enter into discussion.
2. More interactivity and interaction with other users. The blog must be lively and active. Then he will attract followers.
3. Add more relevant and valuable information. People are interested in receiving new information on issues that interest them, learning new facts, and sharing their impressions about them. You should give more than you receive.
4. High level literacy and language culture will attract large quantity users than the use of jargon, obscenities and highly specialized slang. Respect your readers, they will respond to you with increased traffic.
Ask.fm
Everything here is extremely simple and clear. Ask original questions, be active, interact with other users and your rating will steadily grow, to the delight of you and your online friends.
How to become famous at school (or class)?
To do this, try to adhere to the following recommendations:- Dress neatly and discreetly.
- Try to find your niche in school affairs, where you can become a leader and confidently maintain primacy.
- Be independent, do not succumb to the herd instinct and do not hesitate to directly express your opinion on any issue. You will definitely be respected for your directness and honesty.
- Try not to discuss others behind their backs.
- Never refuse help if you see that a person really needs it.
- Strive to succeed in your studies maximum number items. Smart people respected everywhere.
- Don't curry favor with teachers and school administration.
Even if we don't always admit it, most of us dream of finding the answer to the question of how to become popular. Why do some girls easily manage to be popular and be liked by others, while others cannot become so, no matter how hard they try? How to earn the recognition and respect of others? Here are some secrets that will help you become a popular girl.
1. Don't try to be popular!
It would be a mistake to artificially try to become popular. When girls try to impress others and somehow capture their imagination, it inevitably makes them act unnaturally and think about what they should do or say to be liked. When we behave this way, we hide our real selves behind a created mask of an imaginary ideal. Of course, this behavior may temporarily impress some people, but in long term cannot guarantee our success. It is much better in friendship to be based on your real qualities and avoid eccentric attempts to increase your authority.
2. Quality, not quantity
When dreaming of popularity, you should not chase the number of friends. Their quality is much more important.
Of course, none of us would refuse endless list reliable, loyal and true friends. But the reality is much more prosaic, no matter how rich, famous and influential you are. Most friends, over time, become just acquaintances. Some of them disappear from our lives much faster than they were found. Others don't mind exchanging pleasantries and chatting, but they will never be ready to rush to you in the middle of the night to listen to the latest drama from your personal life.
Choose people with a light, sympathetic character, who know how to be faithful and fair, in whom you see kindred spirit who will always come to help you in difficult times.
3. Get out of your comfort zone
This step is most important for shy girls who dream of becoming popular. Take a step out of your comfort zone, even if you are an incorrigible introvert.
Practice shows that it works! Pay attention to those around you, be interested in their interests, make them feel important, tell a funny story, inspire others to join you and do something unexpected and even outrageous together... Be nice and friendly to those who want to communicate with you. However, it is better to stay away from manipulative people who are accustomed to using others solely for their own interests.
People value those who think not only about themselves, but also about others. If you only talk about yourself and your own achievements, people around you will simply start trying to avoid you. On the contrary, people who are willing to spend their time listening to others are respected. This rule applies to absolutely everyone, and not just a select few who have a high social status.
5. Be yourself
Pretending to be someone else will put you under constant stress. We are not sincere when we try to please others by meeting other people's expectations, and people can quickly see this. On the contrary, by remaining who we are, we allow our natural talents to reveal themselves, which naturally attracts other people, making us popular.
6. Kind heart
Learn to be generous in your relationships with other people and forget their little mistakes. People around you really appreciate this positive outlook on the world. This is a very important factor in building a new image! Criticism and judgment make people feel disadvantaged. If we find a way to appreciate the merits of other people, they will be very pleased with our generosity.
7. Shrink your ego
If you intend to impress other people, it is wise to drop various titles, surnames and achievements in conversation. By increasing your ego, you can only become popular in your own eyes. If you don’t chase recognition and praise, people will appreciate your modesty. Let your real actions speak louder than words! If you do good things, there is no need to act as your own PR manager - you are not a politician who runs for office and achieves popularity through personal presentations.
8. Humor
To gain popularity, we must evaluate ourselves realistically, but we should not be too serious. Humor is one of the most important attributes that is valued by people from all over the world.
According to psychologists, humor is one of the most important qualities that influences the choice of a partner for a relationship. This, of course, does not mean that we should be like the heroines of Comedy Woman, but a good joke will help create the right atmosphere in communication.
9. Goodbye pessimism! Optimism - a new style life
Small clouds of pessimism overhead gradually become thunderclouds, turning some girls into eternally dissatisfied, embittered, arrogant and unhappy creatures. Try to avoid pessimism at all costs if your goal is to be popular with other people. In every challenge we overcome lies opportunity, so try to always find reasons for optimism in your life.
10. Learn to listen!
Contrary to what your logic may dictate, listening to other people is essential to winning their hearts. To be popular, learn to listen and understand their ideas, questions, problems and feelings. People love to talk about themselves and what is on their minds. Try to get on the same page with your interlocutor and pay attention to him, despite the fact that this seems counterintuitive, given the topic of this article. In the future, it will almost certainly pay off!
11. Calmly achieve your goal!
People pay their attention to those who have a strong character, possessing other virtues such as honesty, kindness and patience. In fact, these ideals are more often talked about than possessed. We often meet people who tell others what others should do. It would be much better for these critics to focus on their own behavior and actions rather than lecture others. The secret to popularity here is to be honest with yourself and not make comments to others unnecessarily.
Now you can become popular, but don't try to dive into these tips right away! Instead, master each secret gradually, viewing them as stepping stones to your future popularity.
Popularity is a thing that many people want and try to achieve. When you study at university, popularity plays an important role for you.
Almost each of us wants to be on the crest of the wave, to somehow stand out from the crowd. Almost everyone tries to be the center of attention.
And it doesn’t matter that only a few actually end up in this center. What is more important is that all people, regardless of their temperament and character, desire that day come when they will shine in the rays of glory and praise will fall on them from all sides. Even the quietest people want this long-awaited “finest hour” to come in their lives.
However, have you wondered why everyone strives so much for popularity? What's so good about it?
To answer this complex issue you need to look at the consequences of popularity. Or saying in simple language- it is necessary to find out the positive effects that occur when a person becomes popular. With the onset of popularity, the student really receives a lot of advantages.
Firstly, if you are popular, then your opinion will be significant to many. You, so to speak, have your own contingent, which, in fact, makes you popular at the university.
Accordingly, much of what is proposed by a popular person will be heard. But it’s always nice when others listen to your opinion. This makes you almost a god among people.
Next positive thing popularity means that you have certain concessions in your studies if your popularity is also based on the views of your teachers.
If you have proven yourself well in front of your teachers, then rumors will certainly spread about you as a good student. Accordingly, you will no longer be treated as an ordinary “green student”, but as someone who means something more than the average student.
Many students take advantage of this unspoken privilege. This is their right, they deserve it and no one has the right to condemn them.
Another consequence of popularity is that it is easier for a popular person at a university to make his way in life.
Let's give an example: if you curry favor with your teacher in some competition or scientific seminar, win it, or simply perform well, then next time the teacher will take you to a conference in another city.
Not someone from the outside, but you! Because he is sure that you will not let him down. And he will recommend your candidacy to other teachers at any teaching council.
Because little by little you will be “pushed” to some positions at the university. You will become the chairman of the student council. Or you may be asked to take the reins of some other position in student government.
In any case, you will receive that invaluable experience that will undoubtedly be useful to you in adult life. Plus, you will “grow” some connections with representatives from other circles (you will speak or represent your university at various events).
Therefore, in this light, popularity will certainly play into the hands of any person.
Of course, everything in the world has negative sides. But within the framework of this article we will not focus your attention on this.
After all, now our goal is to prove to you that popularity does not fall from the sky like manna from heaven, is not bought (students are not show business) for money, but is earned for your specific actions.
Then the next logical question would be: is popularity still the destiny of the few, or can almost anyone learn it?
Is it possible for a simple student like me to gain popularity?
Why not? Who is stopping you from doing this? After all, our country is full of opportunities, as all means are now trumpeting mass media right and left.
Therefore, to be popular or not is a purely personal decision for each person. Since you are reading this article, we therefore believe that you have decided to gain popularity among your peers or teachers.
Congratulations! You are on the right track! A little more “water”, and we will tell you what techniques exist on this moment to become popular at the university.
If you are an ordinary student, but dream of fame within your university or even in a wider audience, then you have to choose which way you will win people's favor with you. You can write a lot about different ways to gain popularity.
We will only focus on what we think are the simplest ways that you can use after reading this post.
So, decide: which role suits you best?
1) Expert.
This is a way of gaining popularity in which you will act as some kind of expert on certain issues. For example, if you are strong in law or some other science, then you can advise your comrades on various issues from your field of knowledge.
Thus, a certain group of people will form around you, who will already know that this guy or girl is “rummaging around in this.” At the same time, as mentioned above, your classmates will recommend you to their friends and so on.
Thus, you will gain the reputation of a true professional in your field and will be popular in your educational institution.
2) Bad-bad-boy.
If you want to gain popularity only among your peers, you can take on the role of the bad boy/girl. And this does not mean at all that you should destroy everything in the area. No.
We mean this type of your behavior in which it is simply impossible to remain unnoticed. For example, you can use an old trick and start talking like a tough guy.
Something like “yes, yes, baby.” At the same time, do not be rude, do not swear anywhere, but simply present to people your own feature, which will distinguish you from students like you.
People are designed in such a way that they are drawn to “bad guys” more than to good ones. Apparently, people have a program for thrills in their genes. Therefore, your peculiar character and behavior will attract a large number of fans and with it the fame of a bad guy.
But be careful! This path is the easiest and at the same time the most dangerous. Don’t get used to the role too actively, otherwise in the future you will live like a bad-bad boy all your life.
3) Hard worker
Hardworking people are always loved everywhere, always and by everyone.
Such students are the “life preservers” to whom they cling during tests, tests, and similar important certifications.
If you choose this path to gaining popularity, then it is worth saying the following about it. This is the path, we believe, the most difficult and responsible in terms of maintaining your popularity rating.
You will just need to do everything that is asked of you at the university every day. If you relax even a little, and God forbid, don’t help your friend, then you will almost instantly lose all your popularity, which you have earned with your hard work that is too hard for many.
This path is somewhat reminiscent of the expert’s path, with the only difference being that it is enough for an expert to know something perfectly just from limited area, while a hard worker must have decent knowledge of everything he encounters during his studies at the university.
The image of a hard worker is most suitable for really strong students who study excellently or almost perfectly and who are able to carry all the other lagging behind comrades.
To such hardworking people increased interest teachers show. It will be easier for you to gain their trust, and, accordingly, receive certain bonuses if you unquestioningly complete almost any task that is given to you.
If you truly have the natural ability and skill to persevere labor activity(or, as in our case, educational), then the role of a hard worker is right for you!
It will be easier for you to make your way through life, you will occupy high positions, first at the university, and then in other organizations where you will continue to work. It is your hard work that will allow you to become not only popular, but also a very successful person in life.
Therefore, next time, instead of immediately sitting down at the computer after studying and accessing your favorite “contact”, think about the fact that perhaps you are capable of more than you currently have and can do.
Do more volunteer work, work hard while you are young, and don’t mindlessly sit around talking on social networks.
Remember popularity loves those who stubbornly stick to their line for a long time. Or, as it’s fashionable to say now, it holds the brand.
So, you have learned about three ways to gain popularity at a university. Whatever you like, in any case, we will not leave you without our traditional advice. Today, as you probably already guessed, they will relate to popularity.
We did not divide advice for each of the paths discussed above, but brought them all into a single list. So much the better for you, since there is no completely “clean” way to achieve popularity. Each path complements the other. The same applies to councils.
We have selected the best for you, so read more carefully and absorb everything like a sponge.
No matter what genius of thought you are, all people first evaluate you by appearance. If you don't take special care of yourself, then your chances of gaining popularity are noticeably reduced.
Moreover, if you are a young man or girl, then they practically drop to zero, provided that you do not dress with taste. You don't need bright and fluffy outfits every day! This sometimes even irritates others. It’s enough just to look good, wear clean and neat clothes that will emphasize your status.
The more you are in the public eye, the more likely you are to be remembered, and this is the first step towards gaining popularity in college. If you are a regular participant in various events (concerts, KVN, student council), then there is a very high probability that you will have a favorable influence on your teachers.
What an active student he is, he participates everywhere!” — the teachers will discuss among themselves. This will result in a gradual increase in your popularity among teachers. Well, what about the privileges that you will receive if you become a prominent figure among teaching staff, we have already written above.
If you are asked something, always try to complete any task to the maximum. We explain why it is necessary to do this: the fact is that when you almost always do homework completely and in a timely manner, you gain, firstly, practical problem-solving skills (nowadays few are able to force themselves to do something), and, secondly, you gain fame as a person from whom you can always ask for advice or simply simply write off d/ h.
People always love when there is a person next to them who is able to help. Therefore, your popularity among, first your own, and then other students, will grow in geometric progression. The most important thing in this case is not to overstrain yourself and do not keep parasites near you.
Conclusion: Anyone can become a popular person now. The example with +100500 clearly demonstrates this. However, in order to gain this popularity, you need to make some efforts to gain the favor of your comrades.
Remember: popularity is hard work, which forces you to maintain your brand every day. But, if you are ready for difficulties, if you have confidence that you can become popular, then go for it! And then all the privileges that popularity gives will be yours.
Don't wear a mask. People can tell right away that you're faking it. You have to be authentic, so be who you are and be proud of it. Think about your strengths. By the time they start college, most people have outgrown the person they were in high school. If you haven't already, you need to do a good job of growing up. Your time in college is ideal for getting to know yourself better. And by the time you decide on the choice of your specialty, you should be proud of it because it can become a determining factor in the development of your personality and career.
Please. Open doors for people, don't hesitate to help carry books, offer to help with homework, help a person find their way around college. Only your kindness can help you do this.
Be friendly. Try to make small talk with everyone. Make an effort to talk to someone or help someone you wouldn't normally do. Don't be a bone person. Try chatting about things like: weather, sports, school, college life, travel, hobbies, weekend or vacation plans, movies, music, and favorite TV shows. Stay up to date with the latest celebrity gossip, news and sports, so you'll always have something to talk about. Talking about the weather gets boring really quickly.
Possess good feeling humor. Don't tell stupid, ingrained jokes. Be witty. Search for funny material online or watch funny TV shows or movies to get ideas.
Dress in fashionable clothes. You don't have to imitate Paris Hilton or Kim Kardashian to look stylish, but you don't have to dress like you just rolled out of bed (which is what some students look like). After all, some could be seen in pajamas even at school. For guys good option could be a button-down shirt, T-shirt, pullover or sweatshirt with jeans or shorts. A hoodie with a hood will also work. For girls - an interesting top, pretty haircut, modest makeup. Try to dress appropriately for the climate and terrain. Many students, having decided on their major, begin to dress the way they would at work, for example: business clothes for business majors, more pretentious clothes for artistic majors. This rule is observed especially carefully during internship, practice, etc. Many students wear their work clothes to college, especially if they work after school. Some specialties will require you to wear a special uniform, for example, a robe and trousers made of cotton fabric - for nursing and dental specialties, police uniform - for law enforcement etc. There are some girls who have been wearing attractive dresses and skirts to school recently - if you have such a good and attractive dress, then don’t be afraid to wear it to college.
You are not required to attend parties. Only amateurs attend parties all the time. Drinking alcohol is a sign that you are insecure and therefore turn to alcohol to feel confident. A truly stylish and “cool” person does not need this doping. Attend a nice party once in a while (like a relative's wedding), but don't make it a lifestyle choice. Typically, students who celebrate parties the way Toby Keith does in his "Red Solo Cup" video get laughed at all the time.
Don't join too many clubs. Joining too a large number clubs is a sign that you are desperate and just want to be well received everywhere. Only participate in clubs and activities that you are genuinely interested in or that are related to your major. Do not join a nursing club unless you plan to continue doing so in the future.
Don't try to hide your shortcomings. College is exactly the place where they cannot be hidden. Don't be afraid to do something that you will later regret because it was "not cool." No one has yet defined a standard by which to judge what is “cool” and what is not. Everyone has their own idea of what is "cool" and there are many other aspects that determine this, such as where you live. So, don't try too hard, relax. Who cares if you like Justin Bieber, or like watching Tom and Jerry, or even listening to Lawrence Welk in your dorm. If you like Justin Bieber, don't be afraid to blow up your speakers with his compositions. College students today like to be "ironic" anyway.
Earn good grades. Grades are not an attribute exclusively for “nerds”. Grades will make you “cooler”: after all, this future work, which will allow you to earn money to purchase cool cars, houses, etc.
Don't be addicted to Facebook and others social networks, such as MySpace. Time spent on Facebook is usually wasted time. When you are on the Internet, listen to music, enjoy funny jokes and photos, watch YouTube, and if you get tired of all this, start studying.
You don't need a girlfriend/boyfriend or sex to look "cool". Sometimes having a girlfriend/boyfriend in college can distract you from other interesting activities, or from achieving your main goal - getting an education for a future career. But if you find someone you like, don't be afraid to make the first move. But remember that you may well expect dramatic consequences.
Don't be afraid to express yourself. Don't be afraid to stand up for what you believe in and do what you think is right, even though it may not be popular. Every person has their own opinion, so be sure to respect other people's differences and treat everyone equally. If you don't think that sex or partying is "cool", or that voting for a certain political candidate is not "cool", then act in accordance with your beliefs.