Your boss is looking after you. What if the boyfriend is a boss? Basic rules for safe flirting between bosses and subordinates

Have you started to notice that your boss is casting languid glances in your direction? Or maybe he throws not only glances, but also greasy jokes or rather obscene ones? Or, like a true gentleman, does he try to look after you in every possible way, making you feel like you?

In any case, this situation is not simple and requires careful behavior, because we're talking about not only about , but about your boss. Don't forget about his powers.

Situation one. And so, suppose you had to deal with the most unpleasant version of attention from your boss. His jokes have long ceased to be decent, and his hints have ceased to be decent. You avoid being alone with him, afraid of his harassment, but he still finds an opportunity to show his attitude. What to do in such a situation? First of all, you should understand that in this way your boss can assert himself as . And therefore, while acting, we need to retain its importance and transfer it to another direction. You should give a very firm and calm “no,” but be sure to emphasize its value for you as a boss. Emphasize your respect for his work qualities. It would also be a good idea to pay attention to your behavior. After all, it is quite possible that you unknowingly started this game yourself. Maybe yours appearance far from office style? Maybe your tone of communication with your boss was more like the tone of an interested woman? Quite often, women do not notice how easily they can provoke this or that situation. Understand yourself so as not to join the ranks of provocateurs. If your behavior at work can be called exemplary, outwardly you are modesty itself, and the topics of your conversations with your boss do not go beyond the bounds of decency - act boldly. Yes, you cannot give a 100% guarantee that this problem will be resolved safely and you will not have to change your job. But no one deserves to feel constant humiliation. Respect and love yourself, do not prescribe violence in your life. Remember, our attitude towards ourselves shapes the attitude of others towards us.

Situation two. Your boss is an attractive single man, not without charm and charm. Half of the female component of the team quietly dreams of luring him into their network. But suddenly you begin to notice that the boss has begun to pay much more attention to you than your work requires. from his lips sound as harmonious as the morning greeting, and care makes you feel like a real princess. Do not allow a man to approach your body right away, first establish contact emotional sphere. The right to choose in this situation is yours, but be sure to consider some important points. They can really ruin your life. And the first such moment will be gossip in large quantities. Get ready for your story to acquire new unpleasant details - envious people will not leave this situation unattended. The second point may be a breakdown in working relationships. You need to show remarkable wisdom so as not to destroy the line between personal and work relationships. You will begin to be offended by your lover’s bossy tone, and he will be offended by your insubordination as an employee.

Let tact, caution and self-love guide you in any of the current situations.

Intuition and its absence

Intuition is a voice from the unconscious, an incomprehensible feeling that pushes you in the direction of certain actions. Perhaps when a woman is trying to determine whether a man who is her boss likes her, intuition will serve as a good clue. It helps determine the sympathy of another without unnecessary words and actions on his part: these are invisible sparks flying between you, the attractive energy of a person that causes pleasant emotions and sensations. This is a certain space that only appears when you are nearby.

But you should be careful, because you can easily confuse your inner voice with your own blinding desire to be close to someone who touched the strings of your soul. Rippling hormones and the euphoria of falling in love sometimes create mirages, and you see something that is not there. The man showed gallantry and opened the door for you, and you took it as a marriage proposal, wanting it yourself. Compliments from him also do not necessarily indicate that he is in love: it is quite possible that a man behaves this way in the presence of any woman, simply trying to be polite.

Flirting

What does it mean if your boss flirts with you? On the one hand, this allows you to find out that he cares: he really likes you. No man will waste himself in front of a girl who has absolutely no interest in him. But it's also worth paying attention to how he behaves towards other women in the work environment and outside of it. If the behavior of the alpha male does not change, he flirts with almost all the representatives of the fair half - before you is a hero-lover who amuses his vanity by flirting with every young lady he likes.

Whether he flirts only with you or with everyone in turn - he likes you in any case. But it is impossible to talk about the seriousness of his sympathy and long-term relationships in the second situation.

Calls or SMS for no specific reason

As a rule, managers are busy people, and even if you have friendly communication, no one will call you every day to inquire about your health or inquire about some minor detail that you can handle on your own. A director in love behaves in such a way as to be closer to the one he cares about. By proximity we mean not only physical distance, but also calls, SMS, emails.

These could be work issues that “urgently” need to be clarified on a weekend or later. A man will try to remind himself often under any pretext. And the more ridiculous these excuses are, the higher the likelihood that they want to get closer to you.

Language of the body

• It is possible to read sympathy from a man’s body: speech can be restrained, but bodily manifestations unconsciously convey real attitude. So, what you should pay attention to:
• hands can also tell a lot: a man who wants to be attractive will constantly adjust his tie, shirt collar, and smooth his hair. And manipulations in the peri-groin area (tugging at belts, pockets, buttons) indicate sexual desire;
• to understand a man’s intentions, pay attention to his feet: the feet pointing in your direction will give away a caring boss;
• the interested person will try to minimize the distance with the object of interest to him, will strive for “accidental” touches: hold his elbow, hold him by the back or shoulder;
• another beacon from the unconscious: the one who wants to be liked will mirror the actions of his counterpart. Straighten your hair and he will do the same to himself, take a certain body position - the man will repeat it. The human psyche is designed in such a way that we are drawn to those with whom we have the most similarities.

What does a look tell you?

To begin with, you can observe which parts of your body his gaze lingers on most often and for the longest time. This method will tell you whether the boss is really showing signs of sympathy.

• if the focus is on the chest, this means that the person experiences sexual desire and is prone to short affairs limited to physical contact;
• sensitive, romantic, ready to love natures look at lips;
• men who look straight into your eyes are interested in your intelligence;
• if he is more interested in arms and shoulders, this indicates that the man has not had sexual contact for a long time, or he is very concerned about it;
• aggressive, passionate, sadistic individuals look at the neck and décolleté;
• female hips are a symbol of childbirth. Therefore, if a man often looks at them, this is a sign that subconsciously he views you as the mother of his children;
• does your gaze wander down your legs? Here is a “collector” choosing beautiful cover, with whom you are not ashamed to appear in public.

It is important to note that the signs described above relate only to the male psyche. Women who sympathize fixate on other parts of the body and the interpretation of the female gaze is different.

Indulgences

An indication that a man’s boss likes you will be his more loyal attitude compared to other female employees. A man in love will one way or another try to protect, protect, help, cover up the woman for whom he has feelings. Perhaps you really do a great job and deserve some slack. But if you understand perfectly well that you are an average employee and the director’s concessions are not entirely appropriate, sympathy on his part takes place in your relationship.

Here it is necessary to add the following: if you are not interested in your boss, as in a man, then you should not follow his lead and accept undeserved rewards in the form of praise, bonuses, etc. Otherwise, in the future it may end badly for you: alternatively, having failed to achieve reciprocity, the angry man will begin to take revenge, and you will lose your job. Dotting the I's in time will help avoid unpleasant consequences.

Making you stand out from others

If a boss shows great trust compared to others, then he is probably secretly in love with a subordinate. He may not show any signs of attention in the form of courtship or flirting, but will initiate into the “holy of holies” of the company, talk about secret information, access to which is closed to ordinary employees. It is possible that he is very uptight and embarrassed to express himself like a man, and this is the only way to get closer. But there is a high probability that you are valued as a professional who can be consulted in the affairs of the enterprise.

Also, a male director who is not indifferent to an employee can take advantage of his position and promise her a higher position in order to somehow arouse her interest in him. Often this trick is pulled off by those who want to achieve sexual contact, after which the woman, as a rule, will not see either a promotion or a marriage proposal. Therefore, you need to be extremely careful and careful here.

Pastime outside of work

An invitation to a cup of tea after work is a fairly common and harmless phenomenon in relations between employees of one company. This statement is true provided that this happens rarely, only business issues are discussed at the meeting, and all other signs of falling in love are absent.

But if you often catch a man’s eye, hear compliments from him, your conversations concern not only work issues, but also everyday life, then an invitation to tea can be interpreted as a desire to get to know each other even better in a pleasant cafe setting.

Sudden change of image

When a person falls in love, he is under the influence of hormones of happiness and pleasure. The world He sees everything in rainbow colors, he wants to be better and more beautiful. One who flies on the wings of love begins to change in appearance: his gait, mood, clothes may change - everything becomes more sexual in nature. The Soviet-era film “Office Romance” demonstrates this perfectly: having fallen in love, a prim and inconspicuous boss turns into a beautiful and attractive woman.

This hint, together with others, will help you understand whether the director likes you: pay attention to whether the man has changed in appearance. Perhaps he began to smell somehow differently, he changed his hairstyle or joined the gym.

Present

It’s worth making a reservation here: a pen with the label of the company you work for, given at a corporate event to all employees without exception, of course, does not carry any meaning. But if, with enviable consistency, you are given chocolates or flowers “by chance” for no reason, then you should think about it. Most likely, the boss craves reciprocal attention.

Jealousy

You can find out that your boss is in love by tracking the manifestations of his jealous feelings towards his subordinate. Of course, this will not be so clearly noticeable, because there are no mutual obligations between them, and therefore such emotions are at least inappropriate. You can understand that the director is jealous by certain criteria in his behavior:

• he will listen to yours telephone conversations, especially if there is a male voice on the other end. Frowning eyebrows and a generally dissatisfied face at such moments are a clear sign of jealousy;
• Observe how the director reacts when you interact nicely with employees of the opposite sex. Most likely, in such situations you will receive stern verbal comments;
• the manager may “casually” be interested in your marital status or personal life, as if testing the ground for further action.

Too much and too much laughter

A sense of humor is a separate topic when studying male strategies in winning over a woman. Every man, consciously or not, will strive to make the object of interest to him laugh in order to arouse mutual sympathy. To do this, he will joke a lot and at the same time laugh at any of your witticisms.

Scientists have proven that a laughing person becomes softer, kinder, more accommodating and evokes positive feelings from others. It was also found that men with good feeling humorists have greater success among the female half compared to those who cannot joke.

By the way, as for the ladies: a girl will laugh at any joke of the gentleman with whom she is in love, even if it is not funny at all.

Violating your boundaries

The boss is definitely in love with you if he tries to go beyond professional boundaries in the relationship. This can be understood by the manner of communication, which clearly does not correspond to work. Irony, perhaps sarcasm, jokes with a touch of sexuality - all this is a veiled attempt to move to a more intimate level, more confidential. For example, a phrase such as “I know you” or “Yes, I know you!” talk about a person’s unconscious desire to be closer. The man thus shows - “you are under control, I am watching.”

An offer to give you a ride home or, conversely, to take you to work will also be an invasion of personal space. Offering to resolve any issues or problems outside the office is also about this. For example, the director suddenly wants to help you transport furniture or take your car to a service station. The desire to participate in your everyday life may even seem intrusive, especially when you cannot reciprocate the person’s feelings.

A man in love will try to quietly take control of your entire life in order to help, protect in time, react to the appearance of other representatives of the stronger sex and get rid of them safely.

Useful tips on the topic of office romance:

Surely you have recalled the wonderful Soviet film Office romance, observing similar situations developing in your department, workshop or office. Isn't it fun to follow the development of romantic relationships among colleagues, openly or secretly sympathizing with or envying them?

Or maybe you also like one of your colleagues or colleagues? Let's say someone shows sympathy for you, but you don't want to give vent to your feelings for fear of violating corporate ethics or causing ridicule from employees. But, in the end, why not flirt if you really want to?! Let's look at whether it's worth starting office romances, in what cases it's better not to do it, and how to avoid tragic consequences...

Why do we need flirting?

It would seem that the question itself sounds strange. However, try to answer it immediately and unambiguously! Easy play with representatives of the opposite sex is an element of our behavior, characteristic (whether we like it or not) of people of all ages, classes and tribes, single and married, married and free. Flirting does not necessarily have to lead to a serious outcome.

As already mentioned, this is a subconscious element of behavior that allows us to feel complete and confident. If we consider the process at the biochemical level, it becomes clear that during such games a number of hormones are produced that are necessary to maintain body tone. At the same time, male tactics, as expected, are offensive in nature, while female tactics are defensive.

If the actions of both participants in flirting remain within the bounds of decency, then both receive mutual pleasure from communication. We play at home, on the street, in the subway, on vacation and, of course, at work. And if we need this so much, a reasonable question arises: “How does flirting affect the effectiveness of work?”

Can flirting be a means of motivation?

There seems to be a clear answer to this question does not yet exist, partner play is a double-edged sword. Wanting to attract attention, we strive to distinguish ourselves in front of the object of tender passion with our professional successes, but we can also lose our work enthusiasm by becoming overly carried away by flirting. One thing is clear: good mood raises our self-esteem, and therefore the effectiveness of our actions.

Suppose a quitter with high self-esteem and big amount adrenaline in the blood will make you shy away from work even more, and the hard worker and professional will take on it with new zeal.

On the one hand, the lack of love play etiquette in Soviet education created certain problems: we are forced to spend a lot of time inventing our own ways to please and developing individual flirting skills. On the other hand, this is good because it allows you to become more original in your behavior over time.

But sometimes inability to behave can scare a person away, and also cause both negative emotions and ruin a working day, or even more than one. In general, our behavior depends on the degree of awareness of its motives: do we just want to be liked or are we looking for a partner for a more serious relationship.

Simplicity is worse than theft...

One way or another, the initial result that we subconsciously seek is the attention of the opposite sex. Let's remember the movie Office Romance once again.

A lonely female boss is devoid of masculinity and pure human attention, and therefore behaves harshly and even rudely. To blossom, it is enough for her to feel the interest of the seemingly most ordinary-looking employee, who began to flirt on the advice of a colleague. Yes, the attention of the opposite sex can work such miracles. But in order to acquire it, not all means are good.

Let's start with something simple. At school, boys pull girls' pigtails, girls squeal and fight - in the end, both of them have fun... This is nothing more than the formation of partner behavior skills. For some, growing up is delayed, and it happens that already quite mature men believe that they can win a lady’s affection with a vulgar compliment or a hint, or even a touch (the latter is akin to tugging on a pigtail).

In rare cases this works. But if we are talking about a self-respecting woman, then most likely such a suitor will receive a rebuff and, in any case, will not arouse sympathy. As for a woman, she is also capable of scaring off a gentleman if she displays excessive rudeness and simplicity, reaching the point of vulgarity, in her interactions with him.

Correctness and subtlety are the main key to success. However, in order not to inspire suspicion, you must be just as sincere.

Is it worth developing a relationship?

If just a smile or the approval of a representative of the opposite sex is not enough for you, there is no big problem (of course, provided that you are free)... A few words in defense of office romances.

Firstly, a relationship with a colleague (or colleague) in itself is very fruitful: after all, you work in the same area, are aware of each other’s affairs, and you will have many common topics for communication.

And secondly, you spend most of the day at work - why not find a life partner there? After all, by observing a person for a long time, you will form a completely adequate idea of ​​his character, abilities and habits.

When should a novel be taken outside the office walls?

However, at a certain stage, the office becomes too small for developing relationships. And primarily because your amorous affairs may not be a very pleasant sight for others. Candid glances, constant solitude and, in the end, your possible distraction caused by passion - all this irritates employees and prevents them from working at a normal pace.

If mutual sympathy with a colleague (or co-worker) has already been established and is no secret to anyone, it is best to agree that at work you will only deal with your own official duties. Of course, smiles, warm glances and mutual assistance are not necessary, and it is simply impossible to refuse each other, but everything that goes beyond these limits should be taken out of the workplace and time.

Staying alone, you can completely surrender to your feelings, especially since your conscience will be clear - after all, you carefully and timely perform job functions At work.

Romance with the boss: safety precautions

Finally, I would like to say a few words about an affair with a boss (boss) or subordinate (subordinate).

When feelings wedge themselves into the work hierarchy, you should always be on your guard. If you are a boss, then it is not at all necessary to interpret a subordinate’s smile as an expression of sympathy for you personally.

Perhaps this is an elementary defensive reaction from your anger and an attempt to win you over as a leader, a call to be more lenient, and maybe even more generous. If you are a subordinate, then do not perceive your boss’s flirting with you as the beginning of a great and bright love.

His actions may turn out to be ordinary hierarchical behavior, which tacitly implies: main man in the department has the right to flirt with any of the employees. It makes more sense to transfer such relationships to the level of friendship.

And do not forget that an affair with a superior person will certainly cause condemnation and envy from some colleagues: you may be suspected of pursuing selfish goals. If great love really came to you, then at first you should disguise it even more carefully.

Today, many single or unhappily married women spend more than half of their time in the office. Flirting with colleagues is a protection against loneliness for them. With frequent daily communication at work, modern men and women are even forced to flirt.
Today this is an acceptable manner of communication between a man and a woman. Flirting facilitates communication between office workers both sexes. It is almost inevitable, since an independent, confident woman already stands out among others. And this is already initial stage flirting.

I would like to dwell in more detail on such a fairly common phenomenon today as flirting with a boss. A woman has the right to flirt with any office employee. It is important that she distinguishes flirting from banal advances. Especially if she is flirting with her boss. Often this ends in failure due to the fact that the subordinate regards the boss’s attention as the beginning of something pure and bright. And here it’s likely different variants developments of events. From the happiest to the most trivial.
That’s why it’s important to remember the main rules of flirting with your boss. I will discuss them in more detail below.

So, the main rules for flirting with your boss are:

First. To attract the attention of your boss, you need to be a strong, energetic, self-sufficient woman, flirting with whom will give him pleasure. And at the same time, do not pretend to be the only one with whom he will be interested and happy, do not try to tie him to yourself and infringe on his freedom.

Second. It is necessary to maintain the necessary distance between the boss and the subordinate. Not allowing any closeness. Be prepared to resist his advances. Your flirting should be light and non-binding and not implying any continuation in the future. No man will tolerate an attack on his freedom by a woman who is stranger to him. Remember: you are work colleagues. No more.

Third. You must be patient, self-possessed, not be offended by your boss over trifles, be angry with him, be in bad mood, avoid his company. Remember, he is first of all your leader and only then a man. Be sincerely interested in his opinion, be a good listener, do not interrupt him.

Fourth. You can’t be too serious, stubborn, in production issues and not insist on your opinion, proving that it is the only correct one. You must remember that besides you there are other subordinates who may have opinions different from your point of view. And the boss can listen to them or draw his own conclusions from the situation.

Fifth. You cannot allow yourself to be caught off guard under any circumstances. For your boss, you should always have a smile and a joke in stock, even if you have made a fine.

Sixth. You must value your manager's trust. And don’t forget that flirting with your boss is not a reason to brag to your colleagues about your secret knowledge, entrusted to you either out of operational necessity or in moments of weakness.

It is unacceptable to forget or neglect the rules of flirting. You need to remember that flirting with your boss is just a game. A game that doesn't oblige you to anything. A game that helps production process, defusing the atmosphere within the team. A game that, if you don’t overplay it, will bring you such tangible results as respect and acceptance from your boss.

On the contrary, loss of control over the situation when flirting threatens loss of your job in extreme cases, and at the very least gossip and the collapse of your reputation.

However, try to answer it immediately and unambiguously! Easy play with representatives of the opposite sex is an element of our behavior, characteristic (whether we like it or not) of people of all ages, classes and tribes, single and married, married and free. Flirting does not necessarily have to lead to a serious outcome. As already mentioned, this is a subconscious element of behavior that allows us to feel complete and confident. If we consider the process at the biochemical level, it becomes clear that during such games a number of hormones are produced that are necessary to maintain body tone. At the same time, male tactics, as expected, are offensive in nature, while female tactics are defensive. If the actions of both participants in flirting remain within the bounds of decency, then both receive mutual pleasure from communication. We play at home, on the street, in the subway, on vacation and, of course, at work.

Rules for safe flirting with your boss

Today this is an acceptable manner of communication between a man and a woman. Flirting facilitates communication between office workers of both sexes. It is almost inevitable, since an independent, confident woman already stands out among others.

And this is already the initial stage of flirting. I would like to dwell in more detail on such a fairly common phenomenon today as flirting with a boss. A woman has the right to flirt with any office employee. It is important that she distinguishes flirting from banal advances.

Especially if she is flirting with her boss. Often this ends in failure due to the fact that the subordinate regards the boss’s attention as the beginning of something pure and bright. And here, after all, different options for the development of events are likely. From the happiest to the most trivial. Therefore, it is important to remember the main rules of flirting with your boss.
I will discuss them in more detail below.

Basic rules for safe flirting between bosses and subordinates

He may not need such a relationship (he already has a family or is not interested in a serious relationship) or is prohibited by corporate ethics. Secondly, the boss’s mistresses are not liked in the team, which can significantly complicate working conditions.

• Play by his rules. An affair with a boss is in many ways similar to an affair with married man: A lover manages not only his enterprise, but also your relationship.
  He dictates their form, scope and degree of secrecy. Therefore, the time, place and duration of meetings will also be appointed by them. And this means complete readiness at any time of the day or night to sacrifice your time and interests for the benefit of secret meetings. This kind of “on-call” work is quite exhausting nervous system, especially among married mistresses who are forced to constantly invent “legends” for their husbands.
• Maintaining tone.

Flirting at work

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Therefore, at the beginning of their journey, many managers are forced to deal with a number of problems, including the impact on themselves from their subordinates. By the way, the latter use a large number of different psychological techniques, thanks to which they win over inexperienced management. The relationship between subordinates and management is based on the execution of assigned tasks.

In this process, manipulations of different nature and execution find their place. Very often, competent performers take control of their leadership. Moreover, representatives of the latter group do not even suspect this.

In order not to succumb to such influence, it is important for a manager to distinguish between rights and responsibilities in the first stages of interaction with his subordinates. There are plenty of methods to manipulate management.

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Among them are the use of compromising evidence, reporting on other employees, gaining trust by informing about oneself and the work done in a favorable light. But the most common method of manipulation at work is considered to be a technique worked out in family or personal life - flirting. Using this tool in most cases allows you not only to get on a first-name basis with management, but also to reach love relationships.
Traditionally, such methods of influence are used by subordinates in an informal setting. For example, at corporate events and work parties on the occasion of birthdays, New Years, etc. Therefore, managers should be on alert if they plan to attend such events.
The main rule of how not to fall for the manipulations of subordinates is to maintain distance. This approach does not exclude friendly communication.

The main rules of flirting with your boss

When communicating between management and subordinates in an informal setting, it is important to maintain the distance dictated by the official positions held. Otherwise, in the course of further interaction at work, problems may arise. conflict situations. Management should not be shy about hints or outright statements to their opponents that their plans have been revealed.

Remember, flirting at work can lead to different consequences. Although there is no denying that quite often at work there is completely safe flirting between subordinates and management. The condition for such communication is the refusal to position flirtatious advances as the beginning of intimate interest.

Some subordinates, when flirting with management, pursue precisely such goals, although this is mainly done to gain the respect and personal sympathy of their superiors. This is a completely normal desire.

The main rules for safe flirting with your boss

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Thanks to flirting:

1. Self-esteem rises.
2. From the gaze, blood plays, eyes and cheeks burn.
3. The thought of attention at work makes me happy to wake up in the morning.
4. There is an incentive for career growth, self-education. Wanting to prove their professional worth, people enthusiastically conquer new heights.

What does it take to want to look good! Suddenly the motivation arises to take care of yourself: go on a diet, buy a gym or yoga membership, try on a new outfit. And, you know, it’s not at all necessary to have an office romance in order to receive bright emotions.

Change the object of attention more often and then you will always be in good shape. Just remember that openly flirting in front of the entire team is unethical.

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But if we are talking about a self-respecting woman, then most likely such a suitor will receive a rebuff and, in any case, will not arouse sympathy. As for a woman, she is also capable of scaring off a gentleman if she displays excessive rudeness and simplicity, reaching the point of vulgarity, in her interactions with him. Correctness and subtlety are the main key to success. However, in order not to inspire suspicion, you must be just as sincere. Is it worth developing a relationship? If just a smile or the approval of a representative of the opposite sex is not enough for you, there is no big problem (of course, provided that you are free)... A few words in defense of office romances. Firstly, a relationship with a colleague (or colleague) in itself is very fruitful: after all, you work in the same area, are aware of each other’s affairs, and you will have many common topics for communication.

How to flirt with your boss

To curb frivolous communication, employees are encouraged to sign “love contracts” requiring them to disclose the affairs of others. No matter what restrictions moralists come up with, flirting is inevitable in the closed perimeter of the workspace. If only because the majority of employees’ main circle of contacts are colleagues.

The principles of personnel selection, the compliance of personnel with certain criteria is associated with a club of interests, where it is easier for people to find common topics. Flirting is a subtle communication tool. If you are told that you look good, do not immediately perceive the compliment as flirting or an expression of personal sympathy. A funny situation arises when sometimes a friendly disposition is perceived as a hint with sexual overtones.

Especially if the boss talks about it. Psychologically savvy managers flirt with subordinates in order to increase the efficiency of work processes.

This unsafe flirting at work

It is an unconscious analysis of many factors that results in emotions or physical sensations - in in this case discomfort and irritation. And, if you are unhappy or angry about this situation, you are right. 2. Flirting Before jumping to any conclusions, take a close look at how your boss interacts with other colleagues. Perhaps he behaves this way with everyone - he is simply pleased to be liked by others. And, even if your boss flirts with you from time to time, if he interacts with other colleagues in the same way, it may be harmless flirting. It is also worth analyzing own actions. Maybe he's flirting with you because you're flirty with him? When trying to understand the intentions behind someone else's actions, you have to be very careful. But, if it becomes clear that he is only flirting with you, and that this is not happening in response to your behavior, this is a serious sign. 3.

Love with the boss

Then, even if they suspect you of having an affair with your boss, your colleagues will not doubt your business qualities.

• Don't forget to discuss in advance with your partner what awaits you after the breakup.
• Try to reduce overlap in your workspace.
Pleasant bonuses of flirting at work How boring it would be if office employees were exclusively engaged in work and limited themselves in expressing emotions. Ambiguous hints were avoided. And so, without hesitation wedding ring, non-verbal signs can be used to send signals into the air and receive compliments and gifts in return. An extra chocolate bar, a flower, a souvenir from a business trip - and a person feels like after a session with a psychotherapist.