Everything will be fine - believe me! With God's help, with God's help everything will be fine

It’s still interesting: why are we people always unhappy with everything? We don’t like that we are hungry, we eat and get angry that we overate... We are looking for love, we suffer without it, we find it and now we are unhappy that our passions are too jealous of us, if the passion stops being jealous, we are angry that he (she) they are too indifferent to us... We suffer because we have to pass a bunch of exams at “this stupid university” and we go into depression when we imagine that in just one more year we will become free people... Because we don’t know why we need this freedom, actually needed... We are angry that from childhood we are driven into the framework of socialization, sent to school, where we, unfortunate people, work as laborers for 10 years... Then we are “bored” by higher education in the form of some kind of state university... We are always everything unhappy. A person can never be absolutely happy. He will always find a reason to moan, complain about life...
How many times have I cursed everything around me when something didn’t work out for me... Some little thing. Oh, poor thing, I have problems with my boyfriend... Oh, poor thing, I passed the exam with a 3. There were so many tears, snot...
Every minute I become more and more convinced of the long-known truth: to become happy, you don’t need money, a high social position and, damn it, you don’t even need a loved one. More precisely, these are not necessary conditions for happiness. But the necessary and sufficient condition for this famous happiness is harmony with yourself, with your soul. The main thing is to accept yourself as you are. And do you know what is most amazing? When you truly accept yourself and begin to appreciate, those around you also begin to appreciate you... Probably because they feel this calmness, self-confidence in you... They feel good next to you... Have you ever noticed that next to Is it even difficult to find people who are always whining?
I know from myself...
I am a depressed person, with a difficult character, black streaks (which I PERSONALLY create for myself) last for several months. And I noticed this trend: when you complain about life, the first time your friends listen to you and try to help you in any way they can, when you do this the second time, your friends still try to help, but with less enthusiasm... And the third time it causes a specific irritation and misunderstanding even among the closest people. So, sad as it is, I realized that a person must get out of any depression BY HIMSELF and no one is obliged to him and cannot help him with this...
People are weak by nature... Plus, each person has so many of his own problems that he simply physically cannot constantly think about the problems of others. Besides, agree. If you NOW, AT THIS MOMENT, ARE GOOD, you don’t want to spoil this “good” for yourself, you don’t even want to communicate with someone who can even slightly shake your peace of mind...
But actually, I didn’t start writing this strange post to talk about depression.
I wanted to say that today I somehow understood especially clearly how much YOU and I are the masters of our lives. I'm not a fatalist. I don't believe in fate one bit. I know one thing: A MAN DETERMINES HIS LIFE. Believe me, all the troubles are just nonsense. Everything in life simply cannot always be good. The attitude towards these very troubles is important. If you were rude in transport - laugh at the conductor’s stupidity, smile at a beautiful girl (guy) passing by and believe me - everything will be just wonderful.
Perhaps I am writing truisms. You probably understand all this yourself... But today my own stupidity just became so obvious to me!!!
After all, small problems can simply be ignored, big problems arise because we simply do not want to solve them... And not because I am “so unhappy, unlucky, God doesn’t love me.”
For example, I'll take myself... and my unforgettable boyfriend. He and I fight very often. Sometimes it feels so bad for us... It's just terrible. Sometimes I don't get out of depression for weeks. You can blame God for this, you can blame my boyfriend... But the correct thing to do is blame YOURSELF. I can't decide. If you love, then love. Goodbye. Accept it as it is. If you don't love me, leave...
AFTER yesterday's global quarrel, I decided that "enough is enough." IT'S TIME to answer these simple questions. And the answer is simple: I love. Therefore, if I love him, then I just need to love him... Don’t find fault... Don’t make trouble. And to love. So, I'll try. It would be nice if he looked at the world the same way as I do :))))

ZY And also, I advise everyone to re-read the Bible... For the 10 commandments are 10 steps to harmony with oneself, and therefore to happiness.
I do not consider myself Orthodox, but I consider myself a believer. Believing in God as a symbol of supreme justice. FOR me, GOD is the spiritual core of man, all that light that moves our souls... The sunniest, most beautiful impulses of our souls. So, with God’s help, I will strive for self-knowledge, for harmony with myself, for happiness...

Today the day started as usual. Having cleaned the stove and filled it with coal, I began morning procedures with my stepfather (he is bedridden).
I changed his bed and fed him, then, glancing at the clock, I rushed to the village medical center to get another injection (I was being treated for asthma) and to get a trust deed from the village council nurse-deputy for the removal of coal for the past year for my stepfather. Then she got on the mine bus to go to the neighboring village to the village council - to certify this very act.
Everything worked out for me: I certified the paper and hurried to the mine to find out when they would finally bring this ill-fated coal from the second half of last year, which we cannot bring in any way.
At the mine, the drivers told me that it was not profitable for them to transport coal over short distances, that is, for five kilometers they would earn eight hundred rubles for delivery. Now, if only it were further away to “cut down” two thousand at once...
But on that day the coal was no longer released and I was advised to come on Monday or Tuesday morning: maybe someone would agree to bring this coal.
Having found out what time it was, I realized that there would be no buses heading my way in the near future.
The temperature outside was sub-zero and I decided not to stand still at the bus stop, but to move so as not to get sicker.
If someone is driving, I’ll try to ask for a ride.
But no - no!
With God’s help I will get home: just don’t stand still, but move.
And I walked along the highway. Cars drove past me, one cooler than the other, but no one cared about the woman walking along the highway between populated areas. I didn't even try to stop anyone. I just kept repeating to myself: “Go ahead and with God’s help you will be home...”
I had already walked perhaps a third of the distance between the villages when a car stopped next to me. The door opened and they told me: “Get in the car, we’ll take you there.” Who took pity on me anyway? When I saw the man driving, I was not surprised. This was our father - Father Victor, rector of the Temple of Olga and Mikhail in the village of Yasenovsky. He asked why I was walking so far. And I explained to him.
Soon we arrived at my stop. I thanked him and went home. And my soul felt warm and light.
Indeed, with God's help...
01/12/2018

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If anyone does not fall under sorrow, but in hope of God
bears the burden of sorrow, then for his patience a great reward from God is ready for him.
Saint Basil the Great

What does a person who has completed his earthly journey leave in memory of himself? At least two dates, between which there is either a dash or a minus... Or a dash. This line contains the entirety of human life. They say that if we cannot expand the time boundaries allotted to us, we cannot lengthen our life, we should, within the allotted time, expand it. Each person can interpret this recommendation in his own way, but those who lead a meaningful spiritual life know exactly what and how this volume is achieved. For in this case we are not talking about escaping boredom, but about saving an immortal soul.

Today we are saved by endurance of tribulations. It’s a paradox: we desire nothing more unconditionally than salvation, and at the same time we fervently and incessantly pray for well-being. This is how man is made. We are afraid of the cross, afraid of drifting and betraying. We are afraid of pain. We sin by lack of faith and cowardice. We know this about ourselves, we mourn our weakness in confession, but we remain the same. If it were not for those beacons that are lit by the strong in spirit, we would be doomed to darkness, for our lamps are good for nothing. By the grace of God there are lighthouses. They shine for everyone who starts moving vertically.

We met Natasha three years ago at an Orthodox forum. A pretty young woman, mother of three sons. Faithful and loving wife. My whole life is dedicated to my family. Perhaps what immediately surprised me was her seriousness and some kind of stubborn focus on the main thing. And the main thing for her was fidelity to the Christian path. She did not scatter herself over the petty and vain. Now I understand why: she didn’t have time for this.

I don't want to say much. I don’t even want to talk at all, just pray. If we talk about it, then the main thing. The way Natasha did it. I'll give the floor to her. Here is one of the advantages of virtual communication: words are spoken in writing. Thanks to this, I have the opportunity to tell about Natasha in her words, carefully collected by brothers and sisters in Christ - those with whom Natasha was in friendly and prayerful communication.

She and her husband did not intend to become a large family. But God gave children, and Natasha accepted them with gratitude.

Using my own example, I will tell you how you can do without infanticide. We came to Russia ten years ago. There was no housing, normal work, or stable salary. When I started going to church, I began to hope for the best. I unexpectedly became pregnant with my second child. The husband was against the birth. It's clear why. And I was also very sick, I was blown about by the wind. There was no thought about abortion, thank God. At the last stage, doctors said that the child might be born deformed. The priest in the church blessed me to receive communion often and I soon gave birth to a healthy son. God bless! The Lord was merciful to us, and my husband was offered a good job. Then we bought an apartment, and kind people also helped. One woman gave a loan without a receipt or interest, another simply gave a large sum of money. After 6 years, I became pregnant again with my third child. My husband was planning to buy a car. He did not want to understand that abortion is a terrible murder of one’s own child! It was hard. She prayed to the Mother of God. Thank God, I gave birth to my third son! Such joy for everyone! And the Lord wonderfully worked on the car. But it’s not even about cars or other benefits. The Lord blesses the family and all their offspring if this family does not kill God-given children.

I am always amazed by God's mercy in the fact that man has free will. But people often use this precious gift not for the glory of God, but in the service of the devil. I read a long time ago that one person, with indignation in his soul, prayed to the Lord like this: “Lord, why are there only criminals, thieves, and drunkards around? Why are those in power such unscrupulous deceivers? Where are the normal people? And he heard a Voice: “You killed them in abortions...”

So, you and I and all people have free will - how to raise children, what kind of example to set for others. We need weaknesses and sorrows to bring us to the Path of Truth. I myself am very worried about the children who are sick and crippled by their own parents. But God forbid that I cripple my children with upbringing and bad example.

I love October too. And I also want to look at the graphics of the black branches, admire the bend of each branch, the shape of the buds. October also plays a significant role in my life. In October I met my future husband, two years later in October we got married to Rev. Sergius of Radonezh (October 8), and a year later, on the Intercession of the Most Holy Theotokos, our son was born. And we always move in October, and we have moved five times.

My mother gave birth to me at the age of 42, and I walked around with a lot of illnesses. The doctors then simply threw hysterics, saying where to give birth, and even so sick, and you yourself will die, and the child will die. Although I was born on time, I weighed 1400. I didn’t even have the strength to take my breasts. They fed me from a pipette. The doctors immediately told my mother that I was not a survivor. But my mother was a fighter, she fought back all the doctors, and after taking me home, she and my dad began to nurse me. So they came out, thank God! And I, with God’s help and God’s grace, gave birth to three boys, and I still need to give birth to a fourth! Every conceived child has the right to life. Admonition to all our Orthodox Christians! (unchurched, baptized).

Natasha's Christian path began with a child's illness. What admonition could be more effective than this? Thank God for everything!

I had such a day. For a long time. About fifteen years ago. My four-month-old son is seriously ill. We were admitted to the hospital. They began to treat diligently, but there was little use. The child was fading away. He didn't sleep properly for two weeks. I was completely exhausted with him. At that moment I knew one prayer. The most important one: “Our Father...” I read it and cried. The son had not yet been baptized. The son stopped crying and fell asleep. I also lay down with him. I had such a dream in a subtle dream that I still remember everything clearly and get goosebumps. I dream that I take the child and go to the exit. I feel like there is someone behind me, although I was alone in the room. I look around - grandfather is sitting on the bed. So handsome! Fear took over me, I think that’s it! This out-of-this-world grandfather came for my son! And he says so kindly, so affectionately: “Don’t worry! Your son will recover soon!” And disappeared. Then, however, we were quickly discharged. Now my son is 16 years old. Thank God for everything! I think it was Nikolai Ugodnik.

From the works of the Holy Fathers it becomes known that illnesses are allowed to people not only because of their sinfulness, but also to test Faith, and also for reasons known to the One Master. Children also get sick for various reasons: both because of the sinfulness of their parents (for their own admonition), and according to the Providence of God (remember the illness of Ilya Muromets). It happens that a sick child grows in love for other sick people, knowing the severity of illnesses, setting an example for healthy people.

I really love rereading Mother Sokolova’s “Under the Shelter of the Most High,” but her cross is really heavy. But the children have grown up so wonderfully - their father was an example!!! And what another!

Natasha spoke about her faith as if she was in a hurry to reach every heart. Now her words seem like a message, a parting word to us who have time left on this side of the threshold.

We all need to acquire a love that does not seek its own. Then there will be no disappointments. We are all egoists, we all have an attitude towards “pleasure”, and not towards giving, sacrifice. No matter how much Christ teaches us, we still divide people into “bad” and “good!” You have to start with yourself... And end with yourself too...

Without God, life is meaningless. Think for yourself, why live? To eat, drink, get rich, get sick and die? At the beginning of churching, we all strive for God by calling grace, and then we have to work. Go to church as often as possible, read and confess. Everything will be fine - believe me!

...life in Christ, humility, meekness, courage and fidelity to the Truth - this is what we should strive for.
Madness is allowed by God for godlessness! For pride, for vanity, and so on (the list is long). Any person “without skin” is the kindest, but without God he is a dummy.

We often make mistakes too. Man is capable of change, with God's help. “You are the salt of the earth...” “You are the light of the world...” Let us shine for everyone. And the communists too.

...It is clear that at all times there have been true Orthodox Christians, and those who consider themselves such, but live like demons, then God is the judge of such. And it's a shame. There are sins - as the saints say - that take a long time to correct, and there are sins that need to be cut off immediately, without justifying yourself in the fact that supposedly many people now have it. You move in such a circle and see others like you, thinking that there are many of you and soon everyone will come to your defense. Even if the whole world follows you - it’s an empty matter. The Lord will be on the side of those who hate sin and eradicate it.

In any situation, the Lord will not abandon you. He is with those who forgive and love, and not with those who are looking for thrills. God help you!!!

God bless you, do not be discouraged. When it's difficult for me, I tell myself - this is temporary. And unfortunately, many families now have similar difficulties. The Lord will not leave you - just don’t leave Him.

Go to church more often - the Lord will heal everything. The best remedy for despondency is to look around and see who is worse off, and help to the best of your ability. Shift your attention to others. Also, spiritual literature greatly nourishes the soul and does not allow bad thoughts to torment it. I did it, with God's help, of course. Now I’m thinking how good it is, but I might never have reached the temple. Help you the Lord and His Most Pure Mother!!!

The last, fourth pregnancy was difficult for many reasons. Natasha then really asked for prayers. She amazed us with the strength of spirit and the meekness with which she endured all the trials that befell her.

"Begotten, not yet born,
You have always been a man!
Nine months of secret
You hoped, believed, loved!

Really, beautiful poems? I read them on a poster in the antenatal clinic.

It is always necessary to delve into yourself, but with benefit and with Hope. Snuggle closer to God and His Most Pure Mother, as little children do in moments of danger - they snuggle up to their mother and seek consolation; if earthly mothers are unable to refuse their own child, then all the more the Heavenly Mother will not refuse consolation to anyone!

In due time, the baby John, of heroic physique, was born. I now regret that I did not save the SMS messages that Natasha sent me from the maternity hospital in my phone memory.

Soon after being discharged from the maternity hospital, Natasha began to have serious health problems.

... must tell me the results of the tests. And I believe that it will not be a pure accident, and it will not be the doctors’ mistake, even if they tell me that there is nothing. This will be the mercy of God! Forgiveness and forgiveness of my grave sins! We must seriously prepare for confession, communion and unction.

The examination left no doubt about the diagnosis: cancer.

Thank God for this little one! If only you could see what a wonderful baby! I will miss my children again. Wasn’t it a MIRACLE that I carried the child to term along with the tumor? The Lord will not allow my baby not to remember his mother. Tomorrow I’m waiting for the priest with the Holy Gifts, I hope Christ will come again, cleanse my soul, help my sick body. This is the great Mercy of God towards me, a sinner!

...I am a very sinful person, but I do not fully realize this, and there is no true repentance in me. The Lord visited me with an illness, cancer, I was already treated for 2 courses, discharged, but now, after 2 months, metastases have appeared in the vertebra. We have 4 sons - 17 years old, 11 years old, 5 years old and 6 months old (Vladislav, Vladimir, Dimitri, John). Thank God for everything!

Whenever there is an opportunity, maybe and should share what we have. But honestly, I don’t see anything interesting in my life - just everyday vanity, what can you tell me about? If I were somewhere, I would see something, otherwise all 18 years are pots and diapers...

All this time I went to church with my children, they were making noise, they needed something (you understand!), what kind of prayer did I have in church?! No! At home there is always running around. Previously, I could secretly read canons, akathists, and spiritual literature when my husband was at work. Now I don’t have the strength, the children need a lot of attention, I’m glad that I can serve them in at least this way. I pray on the go. A short rule. And in the evening it’s even worse - I’m tired and in bed I can barely manage “Our Father...” and “Virgin Mary...”. I have no spiritual life.

...I am not a person of deep faith, but a sinner, cowardly and cowardly, otherwise I would not be so sick. The Lord teaches my evil soul, teaches, but never teaches. How much He has done for me! Thank God for giving me sisters and brothers in Christ who tirelessly pray for me. Everything that I did that was good was done by the Lord in me, and I had nothing to do with it.

...now I’m in the hospital with liver toxicosis, in general, it takes a long time to be treated, my body can no longer withstand the stress, everything came at once. Thank God, there is an opportunity to be treated and little by little, God willing, things will get better.

Lord help everyone to live in love and harmony! Now I am suffering from insomnia, but you can not suffer, but read a lot here and be encouraged. Pray again properly. See people's opinions and love, how they cope in difficult unpredictable situations. Yesterday I received an SMS from “Good Word” on my cell phone: “Frequent communion and fervent prayer healed many when doctors refused. (ig. Nikon (Vorobiov) The Lord consoles me, does not leave me a sinner, no matter what. Of course, I knew this a long time ago and did the same before. But now I had to read THIS again. I wrote it, maybe someone will find it useful too.

I pray briefly, but I earnestly asked, apparently I have to suffer more, I feel sorry for my loved ones.

February 13.
Tomorrow I’m waiting for the priest with the Holy Gifts, I hope Christ will come again, cleanse my soul, help my sick body. This is the great Mercy of God towards me, a sinner!
The worst thing is to die without repentance, and this illness provides a good opportunity to repent.

February 17.
Christ came to me, a sinner, and Father performed the Sacraments. God bless! I started eating, the pain is bearable. The merciful God does not leave us, glory to Him!
God forbid that I forget the Lord, who has given me so many mercies, a sinner! Glory to Thee, Lord!

March 14th.
Today, a liver ultrasound showed metastases. It looks like my candle is burning out... If I don’t write to you for a long time, then remember me for your repose.
I only hope for God's mercy. What I can? And what about my “perseverance”? It was the Lord who did everything in me, strengthened and supported me.

On April 7, Natasha turned 39 years old. On April 8, she received Holy Communion. On the night of April 9, her angelic soul departed to the Lord. Until her last minute, her faithful and loving husband Alexander was next to her.

Faith in God is a gift from God. If we often do not have this Gift, it is because of our sinfulness. Think what will happen to us after death - where will we be and before whom will we appear?! Human life is not grass: it turns green and withers forever. The soul is IMMORTAL!

Eternal memory to the servant of God Natalia, may the Lord rest her bright soul in His Kingdom.

Christ is Risen!

God willing

To the great joy of the students, the Master announced that for his birthday he would like a new shirt. We bought the best fabric. The village tailor came, took the measurements and promised to finish it in seven days with God’s help.

A week has passed. An apprentice was sent to the tailor: The master asks where is his new shirt?

“I didn’t have time to finish it,” the tailor answered, “but with God’s help I’ll finish it tomorrow.”

The next day it happened again:

Sorry, it's not ready yet. Come tomorrow - if the Lord wills, I will certainly finish it.

The next day the Master said:

Ask him how long it will take him if he works alone, without the Lord's help.