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How to make a wish for the New Year and make it come true

People have been making wishes for a long time. Making a wish on New Year's Eve occupies a special place in such rituals. Apparently, the enormous power of universal joy and fun helps to convey desires to places where something will influence their fulfillment.

Perhaps one of the most famous, yet effective ways of making a fortune is this. You need to write a wish on a piece of paper and read it as the chimes strike, burn it, shake the ashes into a glass of champagne and drink it.

The problem is that in those very last minutes it is very difficult to gather your thoughts amidst the general noise, jokes and laughter. Maybe, if you really want it, you’ll still be able to make the desired wish, that’s why it’s cherished. Moreover, rumor claims that the method works.

They also make a wish on the New Year tree. In addition to the beautiful Christmas tree, you will need a bouquet of flowers, ideally donated by someone. Carefully sorting through the petals, they think about their cherished desires. Exactly one hour before midnight, you need to pick exactly three petals, whisper a wish, throw them into a glass and hide them under the tree. When the clock strikes, they take out a glass and drink with everyone.

You can make a wish on a sparkler or candle. The Yellow Dog will love candles and lights on New Year's Eve, so you can count on her patronage. A wish should be whispered over the fire.

How to make a wish for the New Year 2018 so that it comes true

The most important thing for a wish to come true is to formulate it correctly. There should be no negativity in it, no particles of “not”, only positivity. The desire should sound without the words “I want”, because it has already come true: you already want a car or get married.

It is very important to express your dream correctly. Here is a dream come true: a large, bright apartment, but together with my mother-in-law or other relatives.

The dream must be real. Having an average income, you should not dream of becoming a millionaire, because this is unlikely to come true. It is more realistic to wish for a promotion at work, which will lead to improved well-being. But, in this case, you need to try to fulfill your desire. Because in many ways its implementation depends on the person himself, and before New Year’s Eve it will help bring order to thoughts and desires. And if some wish is not fulfilled, then there is a reason for it: fate has prepared something else, even better. It is only important to consider your chance in time and do the right thing.

New Year's Eve and New Year's Eve itself are the most magical time of the year. This is the time when not only children, but also adults begin to believe in miracles and make cherished wishes. How to make a wish for the New Year so that it comes true for sure and as soon as possible?

Miracle of the New Year

In fact, the technical side of the issue, that is, how exactly to formalize a desire, what ritual to perform to make it come true, is secondary. First you need to decide on the desire itself, its essence and content. Exactly correct definition and formulation desires are the key to their fulfillment in the near future.

You can always make wishes, not only on New Year's Eve! But still this night - one of the best moments for making wishes. This is the time when all people in one impulse ask for something from fate, from the Universe, from God, from Santa Claus (depending on who believes in what) and this joint direction of thoughts and feelings enhances the probability of fulfillment of each of your wishes!

Psychologists, esotericists, physicists, and religious people explain this magical effect in different ways, but the essence is the same: desires made by people together and at the same time are more likely to be translated into reality.

Precisely because a wish made on New Year's Eve has special power, it is very important to make it correctly.

How to correctly formulate a desire

Rules for making wishes:

Psychologists have long proven that what a person imagines in his imagination clearly, vividly, emotionally and in detail is perceived by the brain as really happening!

For example, psychologists have found that athletes who, in addition to regular training, train in their imagination and imagine themselves as winners in a competition, show better results in this very competition than those who train without resorting to visualization.

Actually, this last rule - Visualization - already exists first excellent technique, ritual of making wishes. But besides her, there are others.

Magical rituals of making wishes

Toy on the Christmas tree

Spruce, a symbol of the New Year, was considered a sacred tree in ancient times. The ancient Slavs believed that an evergreen tree is a symbol of continuous life; it unites the energies of the past, present and future. Our ancestors decorated the Christmas tree not just for beauty. Jewelry is an offering to the spirits of nature. Gifts were always presented with a request for a better, happier life. Spruce is a symbol of the transition from one life cycle to another.

By decorating a Christmas tree, you can help improve your own life. It should be decorated with symbols of what you want to see in the new year.

You can also make a special, secret decoration. Taking the most beloved and beautiful Christmas ball, remove the top mount from it and put a note there with your deepest desire, then hang the ball back on the spruce branch, closer to the top of the tree.

Letter to Santa Claus

It is a mistake to believe that writing a letter to Santa Claus to an adult is pointless. Firstly, this is an opportunity to record on paper in the correct form the most important and expected events in the new year, and accordingly, tune in to their implementation. And secondly, this is a great way to cheer yourself up and make it festive.

The letter can be sealed in a beautiful envelope and placed under the tree or hung on its branch. At the end of next year it will be interesting to print it out and see what of your wishes came true!

Well, who is the Santa Claus to whom the letter is addressed? Its author himself! This is a letter to yourself!

If dreaming is very useful, then making your dreams come true on your own is the most useful thing you can do.

Wish card

Usually on pre-holiday winter evenings you don’t want something specific, but something large-scale and comprehensive - . I want everything to be great in the new year on all fronts of life: at work, in personal life, with health, and with personal growth and development.

The “Wish Map” technique is primarily focused on visualizing a holistic ideal lifestyle. Here you need to select and paste onto whatman paper pictures from magazines, newspapers, photos that are suitable for your new life (a slender body, a cozy home, a wealthy husband, and so on), and not write down these images in words (although you can combine the first and second).

You will find a scheme for drawing up a “Wish Card” in the article

A glass of champagne

This magical ritual is already a New Year's classic. The method is very popular, many consider it effective. It is very simple, but requires efficiency, since you need to manage to carry out several actions in a very short time, as one New Year’s song says: “While the clock strikes twelve!”

You need to think over and memorize your wish in advance, and a few minutes before the New Year, fill a glass with champagne, put next to it a small and thin piece of paper (but one on which you can write the wish), a pencil, matches or a lighter.

It is curious that the tradition of writing down a wish during the striking of the Chimes is so popular that today in stores you can find magic paper designed specifically for this ritual!

When the Chimes start chiming, you need to write a wish on a piece of paper, set it on fire, throw the ashes into a glass and in the last seconds, or better yet, drink to the bottom at exactly 00:00. It’s good if there is still time to clink glasses with your family and friends and wish them happiness!

The glass doesn't have to be champagne! It can be juice, compote, plain water - it doesn’t matter.

Message from the Universe

On New Year's Eve, while the Chimes are striking or after, at night or even in the morning of January 1, go out onto the street or onto the balcony (another option is to open the window), raise your eyes to the sky and whisper or shout your cherished desire, as if sending it upward.

The moment when everything seems to breathe newness, as if starting from scratch, when the frosty air is invigorating, and before your eyes there is a starry or clear blue sky, it is difficult not to feel the strength and energy of life.

If there are many desires?

This method could be classified as a New Year's fortune-telling, but since it involves recording desires on paper, it is also suitable as a technique for making wishes.

This is a method for those who have a lot of desires and can’t decide which one to take on first.

All wishes should be written on small pieces of paper, mixed thoroughly and placed under the pillow (you can first place them in a bag). When you wake up in the morning, put your hand under the pillow and pull out one of the leaves. The desire that comes first has priority, and it will come true the fastest (if you make an effort, of course).

Turn your dream into a goal

A dream framed as a goal comes true more often and sooner!

May all your dreams come true in the New Year!

Many books have been written about how to make wishes and set goals correctly! We recommend that you read some of them:

1. R. Berne “A Mystery for Every Day”
2. V. Levi “Genius of Desires”
3. I. Makarenko “Textbook of wish fulfillment”
4. E. Hicks, J. Hicks “The energy of desire that changes the world. Law of Attraction"
5. N. Pokatilova “Born to Desire. Feminine power in realizing desires"
6. M. Svetlova “Thought creates reality”
7. A. Calabrese “Any whim - with the power of thought. The sure way to get everything and quickly"

The ashes of a treasured piece of paper in a glass of champagne, 12 white grapes swallowed while the clock strikes, a coin under the tablecloth as a symbol of wealth, or new red underwear as a guarantee of hot sex - you may have already done all this, more than once. If it seems to you that traditional signs do not work, it is better to choose a time and perform your own ritual... not forgetting the rules of Feng Shui and the advice of psychologists.

1. In a couple of days: free up space

Why do some dreams come true and others don't? Maybe there is simply not enough room for them in your life? It’s better to start preparing New Year’s wishes by saying goodbye to the past. Moreover, you need to part with him both in word and in deed.

It’s not enough to simply brush off the dust and remove from the surface everything that is out of place. As you walk through the house, carefully look around to notice and throw away everything that is broken, old and unnecessary without regret. Look into your closets and get rid of at least those items or pairs of shoes that you have never worn in the previous 12 months. In general, all items from the “what if you need it” category are solid candidates for discarding. The Chinese or Feng Shui experts would say that such things accumulate stagnant, blocking energy. The Italian New Year's tradition is based on approximately the same logic: on December 31, not only clothes, but sometimes even old furniture fly from windows and balconies. The meaning of “sorting out the rubble” is to clear the space around of what is pulling into the past and make room for something new in your own life.

Think about what some of the things that you are getting rid of may be associated with for you: old misconceptions, old habits, empty affairs, outdated connections, wrong relationships - everything that you want to leave in the past. If you are outside the city or have a fireplace in the house, it is good to throw several of the most “charged” symbolic objects into the fire: for example, a crumpled cigarette pack, a receipt from an unnecessary purchase, a note from an unpleasant person...

Don't forget to clean your desktop, remove all junk from your mail, update your diaries and notebooks.

In the days remaining until the New Year, try to complete at least one (even small) task, fulfill a promise to someone, or repay a debt. Listen to yourself and notice how a new feeling of lightness grows inside.

2. The day before: set a vector of desires

It is customary to thank the passing year by remembering all the good things. This ritual has an important psychological meaning. Over the past 12 months, you have changed, and your desires have changed with you (even if it is not obvious at first glance). By analyzing your feelings and assessing events, you can form a vector of movement for the better. To do this, you can use NLP techniques. Take 2 sheets of paper and a pen, find a few free minutes and try to honestly answer the following questions.

Analysis:

Remember: what events happened in your life over the past year?

Which ones were the most joyful - and why?

Which ones are the most unpleasant and why?

Write down the three most important themes that have defined the past year.

Which of the following do you NOT want to face in the new year?

What have you achieved that you are most proud of?

What do you think others underestimated?

What's your biggest regret that happened this year?

What did you wish for that did not come true?

How do you feel about the general mood of the past year? Notice both positive and negative emotions.

Conclusions:

Looking back, what did you miss most in the past year? (For example: time, money, support, determination, etc.)

If something happened again, what would you do differently?

What has this year taught you, what lessons will you remember?

Name at least three things for which you are grateful to other people, the Universe, and life itself.

Name at least three things you are grateful to yourself for.

Save the piece of paper with the second list (“Conclusions”), and burn the first, still listening carefully to the feeling of lightness that continues to grow inside. By celebrating positive changes, you start the movement of time.

3. Night of December 31st: “charge” your dream

If the previous stages of work have been completed correctly, you are ready to name your desires. It is important to formulate them specifically, with details and your own feelings: imagine exactly what you feel when they become a reality.

Pay attention to what or who your desire is directed at: you personally; on your relationships with people; globally on your role in this life or place in the Universe.

Try to place the main emphasis not on external circumstances (for example, “I want to meet the ideal man”), but on your own role and quality in this situation (“I want to be a happy, loved and loving woman”).

Eliminate any negations and the “not” particle: for example, instead of “I want to lose 10 kg,” it is better to say “It’s easy for me, I’m at the optimal weight and in great shape”; instead of “I don’t need anything” - “I always have enough money for what is important to me.”

Our words have powerful energy: if the desire is correctly formulated and written down, it becomes a goal, and the Universe immediately begins to implement it. Place the piece of paper with your wishes in an envelope and hide it in a secluded place. If in the process of work your imagination has created some kind of symbolic image, try to draw it - carefully, in colors, with love. Roll this piece of paper into a roll, tie it with a ribbon and hang it on the New Year tree: after the holidays it will also need to be removed in order to be unrolled next December.

Finally, to consolidate the result, on the first day (or even the first night) of the new year, you can perform the “Ritual of Eight Oranges.” It is believed that these solar fruits embody the energy of prosperity and joy of life, and the number “8” symbolizes prosperity according to Feng Shui. When entering the house, throw them onto the floor over the threshold so that they roll throughout all rooms except the bathroom and toilet. As you roll the oranges, sincerely and out loud wish yourself all the very best - happiness, love, success, wealth, health, etc. During the first week of the New Year, give these fruits to your guests or neighbors. But most importantly, catch the feeling of the holiday and carry it into the future: your dreams are already beginning to come true!

Someday, all of us make the decision to start a new life. Some on Monday, some every month on the first day, some every year. New Year is the perfect occasion to radically change your life. How should you make wishes for the New Year so that they will certainly come true, and so that next year everything will go exactly the way you want?

Champagne with ashes

Everyone probably knows that the most effective method of making a New Year's wish is to write it on a piece of paper, burn it and dissolve it in a flute of champagne, which you need to drink before the clock strikes 12. But at the same time, many of our compatriots assure that even if you manage to complete all these actions before the New Year arrives, it is not a fact that your wish will come true. What is the reason?

According to experts, the reason is that the person performing the magic ritual is not able to concentrate on what he wants. Our thoughts are busy trying to complete all the manipulations before the last strike of the clock, and this is absolutely wrong! So it is necessary to take care in advance of preparing the things needed during the ceremony - a pencil or pen, a piece of paper, matches...

And at the most important moment, nothing should distract you from your cherished desire - let your hands act automatically, and your thoughts be focused on the main thing.

It is also extremely important to decide on your desires prematurely. Because, as practice shows, vague and non-specific desires do not always come true and are extremely rare. Therefore, do not write on a piece of paper, I want to change my marital status or I want to become rich - specifically indicate how exactly you want to get money and what status you want.

Moreover, if your desire is directed at a specific person, be sure to write his name. And be sure to think in advance about how exactly your desire will sound, so as not to waste precious time formulating your thoughts.

12 New Year's wishes

There is another method of making wishes for the New Year, which is less common. According to him, you must write 12 different wishes on separate pieces of paper, and then put them under the pillow, having previously rolled them into a tube.

The next morning, when you wake up, you need to pull out one piece of paper without looking - the wish that is written there will certainly come true. Moreover, it is necessary to remember that this method will only work if you go to bed no later than 3 am. And remember: if during sleep some leaves that are hidden under your pillow fall out, then fate is favorable to you - these wishes will also be fulfilled. This magical ritual must be performed following certain rules. So that your efforts are not in vain, we have listed them below.

• Before the New Year comes, you can only cut leaves on which you will subsequently write your wishes. Desires can begin to write only after the chimes strike.
• You must write your wishes on pieces of paper alone.
• Make only wishes that can actually come true within the next year.
• Your desires must be specific and you must necessarily think about their possible results.
• Your desires must be formulated clearly, and while writing them down, you must imagine their fulfillment.
• During a magical ritual, you are allowed to use only new wishes - there is no need to repeat the wishes that you made during the striking of the clock.

Take a serious approach to drawing up your wishes - because it would be a shame to use the magic of New Year's Eve to get something that you, in essence, do not need. It is necessary to think through all the desires in advance, and then rewrite them on separate sheets of paper; special attention should be paid to the progress of visualization of each desire.

Draw your wish!

You can also draw your dream. This should be done after the chiming clock, using bright paints, special watercolor sheets and natural brushes. Moreover, it doesn’t matter whether you know how to draw or not - you can even sketch out what you want.

Thus, especially if you want to get a new apartment in the new year, you should draw a house on a piece of paper. If you want to be loved and love, draw, for example, two hearts pierced by one arrow.

You can also depict the figure of a woman and a man, decorating them with wedding rings, a child, jewelry or money, and so on.

That is, you can draw absolutely whatever you want - it is important that the resulting picture evokes associations with your dream. And it doesn’t matter whether it’s beautifully drawn or not - this picture is not intended for a competition, but to make your dreams come true.

When drawing, you can use any color except black. Try to make your picture fun and bright. When the drawing is ready, roll it into a tube and tie it with a red ribbon. Then melt a little wax and drop it onto the resulting scroll, trying to get it on the tape and paper at the same time.

Let the wax cool a little, then write your initials on the wax and hang it on the New Year tree, be sure to warn your family so that none of them touches your wish.

The scroll must hang on the tree for 7 days, until Christmas arrives, then it must be removed and hidden in a secluded place. Wait until the wish you made comes true, unroll the scroll and outline the picture depicted on it in red. Your painting should be kept in this state until you have a new dream for such a magical ritual - then the painting can be burned.

Unknown guest

You can not just write a wish on a piece of paper or draw it, but also... ask people! If you want to radically change something in your life, be sure to celebrate the New Year in a company where there will be people you don’t know. Choose one of them, and when the clock strikes 12, having formulated your desire, touch this person’s hand. In the same way, you can make a wish for a person you know, if he appeared in this company completely unexpectedly for you.

Of course, we all want good changes in life, and therefore, in this way, you can only make a wish when the guest you have chosen behaves correctly, kindly and well-mannered with you. And if you come across a brawler, a brawler, or a drinker, it is better to choose a different method of making a wish for the New Year, so as not to harm yourself.

Although, it also happens that during a celebration a person begins to behave completely differently, and you have already made a wish for him. And if this happens, immediately renounce your plan - remember that you will always have time to slow down the fulfillment of your desire.

There are many different methods for making a New Year's wish - some of them have been around for a long time, and others have been invented more recently. But all of them, if taken seriously and competently, can actually bring results. In addition, your New Year's wish can come true even if you didn't do anything special for it - it's important to truly believe in it.

What New Year's wishes can you make?

Almost any - on the condition that you approach this matter very responsibly, everything you want will be fulfilled. Just don’t make a wish automatically or because everyone at the party is doing it. This makes absolutely no sense!

Don’t make New Year’s wishes that could somehow harm people. Don’t wish bad things on others, don’t wish for what already belongs to someone, don’t wish for revenge... Don’t forget that the New Year is a good and bright holiday, and your wish should also be bright and kind. Only in this case will it be fulfilled!

This is how a person works - he tends to start a “new life” on Monday, on the first day of the next month and, of course, on the New Year. And that’s why it’s so important for us to make a wish on New Year’s Eve. This is an impulse, a charge of vivacity, an incentive that will last for 365 days. And next year – as many as 366.

Tuning into the wave of fulfillment of a desire, we want it so much that the desire, willy-nilly, has to be fulfilled. Of course, they didn’t just make a wish, but on the most magical night of the year. So today we’ll talk about how to make wishes on New Year’s Eve, and how to do it correctly.

Ashes in champagne

The most common way to make a wish is to write your wish on a piece of paper during the chiming clock, burn it, mix the ashes with champagne and drink while the clock strikes twelve. Many have tried, but not everyone has succeeded. And why? The thing is that when performing these manipulations, a person is busy not so much with a magical ritual, but with thoughts about what he needs to do - write, burn, drink, and not choke. And all this until the last blow. And this is fundamentally wrong.

You need to focus not on actions, but on the desire itself. Hands must act autonomously from thoughts and images. You need to clearly understand not only the desire itself, but also how it will come true. It’s difficult to do this - everyone around them is clinking glasses, wishing something to each other, shouting, trying to nudge each other on the arm. To prevent this from happening, place a pencil, a piece of paper and a box of matches next to each plate in advance. Then the people will unwittingly join in the ritual, and no one will interfere with you.

Another piece of advice is to choose specific rather than abstract desires for this ritual, that is, you shouldn’t write: I want a lot of money, it’s better to write: I want my salary to be raised (I want to win the lottery - don’t forget to buy a lottery ticket later, or: I want to be successful invest money - and after the holidays start looking for decent options).

The same applies to desires regarding your personal life - an abstract formulation: I want to get married “works” extremely rarely. If you have someone in mind, then write it like this: I want to marry (name). If there is no such person, then it’s better to write: I want to find a husband. The more specific your wish is, the more likely it is that it will come true.

Therefore, think over the wording of your desire in advance so that you can quickly write it down, while focusing only on visualizing the fulfillment of your desire.

Twelve Wishes

Another way to make a wish on New Year's Eve is to write 12 different wishes on pieces of paper, roll them into tubes, put them under the pillow, and the next morning take out one piece of paper at random - whatever is written there will come true. This also has its own nuances - in order for this wish to come true, you need to go to bed before 3 o’clock, that is, while the night lasts. Later, the morning begins, and fortune telling simply turns into a game.

The second condition is that you should not sleep with your arms wrapped around the pillow, then there is a chance that not one wish will come true, but several at once - if you do not specifically “edge” the pillow, and in the morning you find that some pieces of paper are on the floor, then these wishes will be performed on par with the one that will be written on the tube you pulled out.

There are also rules for writing wishes for this ritual:

* Start writing wishes after the New Year (you can cut the paper in advance).

*Do it alone.

* Make a wish for something that should (may) come true within a year.

* Consider the details and consequences of the desire.

* Everything that can be specified, be specific, write names, dates, events.

* When writing each wish, imagine how it will come true.

* If you have already made a wish at midnight, do not repeat it in this ritual.

And further. Write what you really need - don’t waste the magic of New Year’s Eve on desires like: I want a diamond ring. It’s better to ask for health (yours and your loved ones, especially those who need it first), material well-being, deliverance from something, love, etc. Of course, you can ask for some thing, but then clarify whether you want to purchase it yourself or want it to be given to you, and, preferably, if you specify the name of the donor.

Naturally, you will have something to do on New Year’s Eve, so in order not to spend a lot of time on this ritual, you can not only cut the paper in advance, but also draw up a “summary of wishes” on a piece of paper so that you can rewrite them on New Year’s Eve, focusing on visualization , and not on inventing desires.

Painted Happiness

The next way to make a wish on New Year’s is to draw it. After midnight, grab a watercolor sheet, bright paints and brushes. It is absolutely not necessary to be able to draw, the main thing is that you can imagine and schematically depict what you want. For example, you dream of falling in love - just draw a heart pierced by an arrow; if you want the love to be mutual, then draw a double heart with one arrow; or if you want to solve your housing problem in the coming year, you draw a house.

If you want to find a couple (get married) - depict a man and a woman hand in hand, if you know the name of the desired man, sign the names under the figures - yours and his, if you want to get married, then draw two intersecting rings; If you dream of a rich lover, you draw two naked figures almost merging into one, and next to it you depict something material - a coin, a bill, a precious stone, a car, etc. Use your imagination; any desire can be depicted on paper by finding its image.

Just avoid black. The brighter your drawing is, the more joy the fulfillment of your desire will bring you.

And then there is no need to burn, mix or drink anything. Roll your drawing with a wish into a scroll, tie it with a red ribbon, melt the wax and seal the scroll so that the wax gets on both the ribbon and the paper. Scratch your initials onto the still warm wax. After this, hang the scroll on the Christmas tree, but warn that no one touches it. Let it hang on the tree for a week. On Christmas Day (at night), remove the scroll and put it in a secluded place. After your wish comes true, print out the scroll, circle the picture with red paint and leave it until you have a new cherished wish. Then the scroll can be burned.

New guest

You can also make a wish for a new guest in the New Year. If suddenly a person you don’t know comes to you (or to the company where you will celebrate the New Year), then you can make a wish that is based on change, that is, aimed not at getting something, but to change your life path. To do this, after midnight, seize the moment and, after making a wish, take this person by the hand.

Just remember that the person should be very friendly towards you, and in general his arrival and his behavior should not foreshadow problems and troubles. But if at first this person behaved ideally, you made a wish, and then, for no reason at all, he began to rage, behave inappropriately, break dishes or make a row, then you should not strive to fulfill your desire, since in addition to unpleasant and you won’t get anything from unnecessary trouble, or at least you should try to protect yourself from unforeseen difficulties.

Think about what could go wrong in your life if this wish comes true, and act according to the circumstances - give up what you have planned or “spread a straw.”

In a similar way, you can make a wish for a person you know if you absolutely did not expect to see him on New Year’s Eve, that is, if his visit turned out to be unplanned.

In general, there are a great many ways to make a wish in the New Year. Surely you have your own method. The main thing is that you wish from the heart, take the ritual of making a wish seriously, and do not act “automatically” and only because it is customary.

And on New Year’s Eve, in no case should you make wishes that, one way or another, can bring harm or pain to someone else - do not wish for revenge, do not want to receive something that no longer belongs to you (for example, you should not make relationship with a person who has a family in which he is happy and in which he is loved very much), do not wish harm even to those who have greatly offended you in some way. All New Year's wishes should be positive and creative. And then they will certainly come true and bring you happiness.

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