How to meet after death. How the soul of the deceased says goodbye to his family and when he leaves the body

In the first days after separation from the body, the soul communicates with its native places and meets with deceased loved ones, or rather, with their souls. In other words, he communicates with what was precious in earthly life.

She gains a wonderful new ability - spiritual vision. Our body is a reliable gate with which we are closed from the world of spirits, so that our sworn enemies, fallen spirits, did not invade us and did not destroy us. Although they are so cunning that they find workarounds. And some serve them without seeing them themselves. But spiritual vision, which opens after death, allows the soul to see not only the spirits present in the surrounding space in huge numbers, in their true form, but also their deceased loved ones, who help the lonely soul get used to new, unusual conditions for it.

Many of those who have post-mortem experiences have spoken of encounters with deceased relatives or acquaintances. These meetings took place on earth, sometimes shortly before the soul left the body, and sometimes in the setting of the otherworldly world. For example, one woman who experienced temporary death heard a doctor tell her family that she was dying. Coming out of her body and rising up, she saw her dead relatives and friends. She recognized them, and they were glad that they met her.

Another woman saw her relatives greeting her and shaking her hands. They were dressed in white, rejoicing and looking happy. “And suddenly they turned their backs on me and began to move away; and my grandmother, looking over her shoulder, told me: “We will see you later, not this time.” She died at 96, and here she looked, well, forty to forty-five years old, healthy and happy.”

One man says that when he was dying of a heart attack at one end of the hospital, at the same time his Native sister was dying from an attack of diabetes at the other end of the hospital. “When I left my body,” he says, “I suddenly met my sister. I was very happy about this because I loved her very much. While talking to her, I wanted to follow her, but she, turning to me, ordered me to stay where I was, explaining that my time had not yet come. When I woke up, I told my doctor that I had met my sister who had just passed away. The doctor didn't believe me. However, at my persistent request, he sent to check through nurse and found out that she had recently died, as I told him.” And there are a lot of similar stories. A soul that has passed into the afterlife often meets there those who were close to it. Although this meeting is usually short-lived. Because great trials and private judgment await the soul ahead. And only after a private trial is it decided whether the soul should be with its loved ones, or whether it is destined for another place. After all, the souls of dead people do not wander of their own free will, wherever they want. The Orthodox Church teaches that after the death of the body, the Lord determines for each soul its temporary place of residence - either in heaven or in hell. Therefore, meetings with the souls of deceased relatives should be accepted not as a rule, but as exceptions allowed by the Lord for the benefit of recently deceased people who either have yet to live on earth, or, if their souls are frightened by their new situation, help them.

The existence of the soul extends beyond the coffin, where it transfers everything that it is accustomed to, that was dear to it, and that it learned in its temporary earthly life. Way of thinking life rules, inclinations - everything is transferred by the soul to the afterlife. Therefore, it is natural that at first the soul, by the grace of God, meets those who were closer to it in earthly life. But it happens that deceased loved ones appear to living people.

And this does not mean their imminent demise. The reasons can be different, and often incomprehensible to people living on earth. For example, after the resurrection of the Savior, many dead also appeared in Jerusalem (Matthew 27:52-53). But there were also cases when the dead appeared to admonish the living who were leading an unrighteous lifestyle. It is necessary, however, to distinguish true visions from demonic obsessions, after which only fear and an anxious state of mind remain. For cases of the appearance of souls from the afterlife are rare and always serve to admonish the living.

So, a few days before the ordeal (two or three), the soul, accompanied by protective angels, is on earth. She can visit those places that were dear to her, or go where she wanted to visit during her lifetime. The doctrine of the presence of the soul on earth during the first days after death existed in Orthodox Church already in the 4th century. Patristic tradition reports that the Angel who accompanied him in the desert St. Macarius of Alexandria, said: “The soul of the deceased receives from the Angel guarding it relief from the grief it feels from separation from the body, which is why good hope is born in it. For for two days the soul, together with the Angels who are with it, is allowed to walk on the earth wherever it wants. Therefore, the soul that loves the body sometimes wanders near the house in which it was separated from the body, sometimes near the coffin in which the body is laid, and thus spends two days, like a bird, looking for a nest for itself. And a virtuous soul walks in those places in which it used to do the truth...”

It should be said that these days are not a mandatory rule for everyone. They are given only to those who have retained their attachment to earthly, worldly life, and who find it difficult to part with it and know that they will never again live in the world they left. But not all souls that part with their bodies are attached to earthly life. So, for example, the holy saints, who were not at all attached to worldly things, lived in constant anticipation of the transition to another world, are not even attracted to the places where they did good deeds, but immediately begin their ascent to heaven.

Many who have lost loved ones are familiar with the feelings that loss causes. Emptiness, melancholy and wild pain in the soul. Grieving for departed loved ones is one of the most painful psychological conditions.

However, there is a lot of information that the living receive messages from the subtle world.

Let's not take into account researchers who purposefully study possibilities two-way communication with the other world. There are a considerable number of people who claim that they do not make any effort to see the souls of the departed. Visions occur, in their opinion, involuntarily.

From this article you will learn how the souls of the dead communicate with the living.

Stuck Between Worlds

People often get scared when footsteps are clearly heard in their homes where no one is walking. Water taps and light switches turn on by themselves, things fall off the shelves with enviable regularity. In other words, poltergeist activity is observed. But what's really going on?

To understand who or what is communicating with us on behalf of the dead, you need to imagine what happens after death.

After death physical body the soul strives to return to the Creator. Some souls will do this faster, while others will take longer. The higher the level of development of the soul, the faster it will reach Home.

However, the soul can various reasons stay in the closest density to physical world astral plane. Sometimes the deceased does not realize what is happening and where he is. He doesn't understand that he died. He is unable to return to the physical body and is stuck between worlds.

For him, everything remains the same, except for one thing: living people stop seeing them. Such souls are considered to be ghosts.

For how long a ghost soul will linger near the world of the living, depends on the level of development of the soul. By human standards, the time spent by a certain soul in parallel with living people can be calculated in decades, or even centuries. They may need help from the living.

Call from the other world

Telephone calls from the inhabitants of the subtle world are one of the ways of communication. SMS messages are received on mobile phones, calls are received from strange numbers from a variety of numbers. When trying to call back to these numbers or send a response, it turns out that this number does not exist, and later it is completely deleted from the phone’s memory.

Such calls are usually accompanied by very loud noise, similar to the wind in a field and a loud crash. Through the crackling, contact with the world of the dead is manifested. It's like a curtain is breaking through between worlds.

The phrases are short and only the caller speaks. Calls coming to mobile phones are observed during the first time after a person has died. The further from the day of death, the rarer they become.

The recipients of such calls may not suspect that the caller is no longer alive. This becomes clear later. It is possible that such calls are made by ghosts who themselves are not aware of their physical death.

What do dead people talk about when they call on the phone?

Sometimes, when calling on the phone, the deceased may ask for help.

So, one woman received a call late at night from her younger sister, who asked her to help her. But the woman was very tired, so she promised to call back the next morning and help in any way she could.

And about five minutes later, the younger sister’s husband called and said that his wife had been dead for about two weeks, and her body was in the forensic morgue. She was hit by a car and the driver fled the scene of the accident.

Souls, by calling the phone, can warn the living about the danger.

A young family was traveling by car. A girl was driving. The car skidded and miraculously did not roll over, leaving the road. At this time he called mobile phone girls.

When everyone came to their senses a little, it turned out that the girl’s mother had called. They called her back, and she asked in a trembling voice if everything was okay. When asked why she was asking, the woman replied: “Grandfather called (he died six years ago) and said: “She’s still alive. You can save her.”

Besides cell phones voices of dead people can be heard in the computer speakers along with technical noise. Their degree of intelligibility can vary from very quiet and barely intelligible to relatively loud and clearly distinguishable.

Reflections of ghosts in mirrors and more

People talk about seeing reflections of their deceased loved ones in mirrors, as well as on TV screens and computer monitors.

The girl saw a rather dense silhouette of her mother on the tenth day after her funeral. The woman “sat” on a chair nearby, as she did during life, and looked over her daughter’s shoulder. A few moments later the silhouette disappeared and did not appear again. Later, the girl realized that her mother’s soul came to her to say goodbye.

Raymond Moody in his books talks about the ancient technology when by peering into the mirror you can establish contact with the deceased. This technique was used in ancient times by priests. True, instead of mirrors they used bowls of water.

An unprepared person can see in the mirror the image of someone who has died by briefly glancing into it. The image can either transform from the reflection of the face of the person looking in the mirror, or appear next to the reflection of the viewer.

In addition to the signs that residents of the subtle planes leave through technology or some household items, attempts to make contact are made directly. That is, people physically feel the otherworldly presence of spirits, hear their voices and even recognize the smells characteristic of their timelessly departed loved ones during life.

Tactile sensations of presence

Sensitive people feel an otherworldly presence as a light touch or a breeze. Often mothers who have lost their children, in moments of intense grief, feel as if someone is hugging them or stroking their hair.

It is possible that in moments when people experience desire see deceased relatives subtle bodies are capable of perceiving energies of more subtle planes.

The dead ask the living for help

Sometimes a person is in an unusual state. He feels that he needs to do something, he is “pulled” somewhere. He doesn’t understand what exactly, but the feeling of confusion does not let him go. He literally does not find a place for himself.

Natalia:

“We came to visit relatives in another city, where my grandparents once lived. It was Monday, and tomorrow was Parents' Day. I couldn’t find a place for myself, I was drawn somewhere, I felt like I had to do something. The family discussed tomorrow. They didn’t remember where my grandfather’s grave was - the cemetery had become disorganized and all the landmarks had been removed.

Without telling anyone, I went alone to the cemetery to look for my grandfather’s grave. I didn't find her that day. The next day, the third, the fourth - to no avail. And the condition does not go away, it only intensifies.

Returning to my city, I asked my mother what my grandfather’s grave looked like. It turns out that there is a photograph of a stele with a star at the end, on the grave of my grandfather. And we went - this time with my sister and my daughter. And my daughter found his grave!

We put it in order and painted the monument. Now all relatives know where grandfather is buried.

After that, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. I feel like I should have brought my family to his grave.”

Calling voice

Sometimes, being in crowded places, you can very clearly hear the calling voice of the deceased, similar to a call. This happens when sounds are mixed, and unexpectedly.

They just sound in real time. It happens that in moments when a person is thinking deeply about something, he can hear the hint in the voice of the deceased.

Meetings with the souls of the dead in dreams

There are a lot of people saying that they dream of the dead. And the attitude towards such meetings in dreams is ambiguous. They scare some people, others try to interpret them, believing that such a dream contains an important message. And there are those who do not take dreams about the dead seriously. For them it's just a dream.

What are dreams about in which we see those who are no longer among us:

• we get various kinds warnings about upcoming events;
• in dreams we learn how the souls of the dead “settled” in another world;
• we understand that they are asking for forgiveness for their actions during life;
• through us they can convey messages to others;
• the souls of the dead can ask the living for help.

It would take a long time to list probable reasons why the dead appear alive. Only those who dreamed about the deceased can understand this.

Regardless of how people receive signs from the deceased, it is safe to say that they are trying to get in touch with the living.

The souls of our loved ones continue to take care of us even while in the subtle world. Unfortunately, not everyone is always ready for this kind of contact. Most often, this causes panic fear in people. Memories of loved ones are very deeply imprinted in our memory.

Perhaps to meet the departed, it is enough to open access to our own subconscious.

Meeting with loved ones and relatives.

I am often asked in letters whether we will see our relatives there, who have already gone to that world before us?Yes, of course, we will meet all our family and loved ones there! Remember that inIn the World of Desires there are 2 laws at work - the law of attraction and repulsion. The first is inherent in the highest layers of this World, and the second - in its lower ones, i.e. Purgatory.

In the case of a date with your family and loved ones, of course, the law of attraction works. And as a rule, they know there when the time is right for his relative to die here and come to meet him. They also somehow know if that time has come or not. That is, sometimes a person will be able to clinical death, will meet someone there and that person, already dead to us, will tell him that this is not his time yet, his hour has not yet come and that he needs to go back.

But let's go back to those two laws. Since the law of attraction is characteristic of the upper strata, and the deceased must still reach them by first passing his time in Purgatory, then those close and dear ones cannot stay with him for a long time. They will come to greet him and tell him something, but they cannot stay with him for long. The law of repulsion will begin to work and they will have to part. But not because this law repels everything that doesn’t hit. No, this law only works in the case of negative people. phenomena, in this way we undergo gradual purification and we gradually free ourselves from our bad traits and thus become purified.

In the case of relatives, if they were loved and wanted to see them,the law of repulsion does not work (it is, on the contrary, attraction). But they will need to separate for a while. If those relatives themselves are still passing time in Purgatory, then they will see each other more often, and if they have already passed through Purgatory and are already in the First Heaven, then the newly deceased will have to wait until he himself reaches that layer - everything is there only good things and they will meet there for a long time!

Question from M. Handel's book:

Do we meet our loved ones after death, if they wereanother religion or even atheists?

M. Handel's answer:

Yes, of course we meet them and we recognize them because in death there is no power of transformation. A person will go to those worlds exactly the same as he was here, because he imagines himself in exactly the same forms as he looked here during life, butplacewhere we meet depends of coursefrom several things.

Firstly, if we lived a deeply religious life and observed the Laws of God, then our time in Purgatory will be unusually short, and then our time in the First Heaven will also be short, because such people have little that would keep them in the World Desires, and also during their lives they tried to feel not only the pain of others (and therefore will now be freed from Purgatory), but also the joy of other people, i.e. they have already fulfilled the purpose of the World of Desires here during their lifetime and therefore will be able to move so quickly to the next World of Thought. Their desire is to get to the Second Heaven in the World of Thought, where they will comprehend with great pleasure the depths of divine existence.

But if the loved one of such a person was of a different nature and had other interests that could detain him for a long time in the World of Desires, then their meeting could linger for quite a long time until this second loved one completes his time in the World of Desires and moves to the World of Thought , where they can finally meet.

If it so happened that we died soon after such a friend of ours, then our meeting with him in Heaven would not have taken place for perhaps twenty years ( I remind you that we mean a person who led a highly spiritual life and therefore he will not linger in Purgatory, when will his atheist friend, who did not observe the Laws of Nature during his life, have to linger for quite a long time in this place); Butat the same time, we must not forget that in those worlds time has no meaning at all and 20 years can pass almost unnoticed.

A materialistic friend who lived good life with high moral principles, as we often find in the case of such people, would be in the fourth region of the World of Desire for a certain number of years, according to the length of time of his life, and onlythen he will go to the Second Heaven, although it should be noted that his stay here will not be as complete and as wonderful as that of a person with high religious and spiritual values.

Here we would see him, recognize him when we meet, and be associated for many centuries in working on our future. environment, and here, in the Second Heaven, he would no longer be a materialist at all. Here, each of us knows and feels like a spiritual being and has a memory of this earthly life only as some kind of bad dream. Therefore, no matter what faith a person may be and no matter what atheist he may be during his life, after his death, ascending through the spiritual worlds, he will eventually, in any case, come to the realization of his own true divine nature.

A little more about this topic. You mentioned billions of deaths and you probably think that we are all mixed up there. No, not at allpeople from the same country find themselves in the same world, similar to what was on earth, that is, Russians with Russians, Englishmen with Englishmen, etc. This happens again according to the law of attraction. We are drawn to the area that is most understandable to us. Also, according to faith, our Worlds are generally separated, but if you wish, you can get into another world - the world of Muslims, for example. See someone there, but after some time you will definitely want to return to the world of your religion.

But there is another unexpected news for you, perhaps! At a certain time we will be able to see there,at our again desire, all our previous livesand the memory of all those incidents and experiences will be revealed to us. And therefore, in addition to people close to us in this life, we will also meet many of our loved ones from past lives! Many of them are already waiting for us there!

After a certain stay in higher worlds and after we learn to study our past lives, if we wish, we canfind out how many times we loved and who we loved. And, if our loved ones from past lives at that moment are in the same World with us (i.e. the World of Desires or the World of Thoughts - which is most likely), then we will be able to meet all of them and this will not embarrass us at all. Somehow we will be able to love them all at once... And then we need to remember that love in the higher worlds has no physical attraction. You will leave that feeling far behind in Purgatory, because... it is the lowest feeling of love. But you will take everything higher with you, and it is this that will allow you to remember your loved ones from different lives.

Question from M. Handel's book:

Will we recognize our loved ones who cross the gates of death? ( I think this means when both of these people die and will they be able to recognize each other in that world? )

M. Handel's answer:

Yes, of course we recognize our loved ones there. When a person leaves his dense body forever, outwardly he remains exactly the same as he was at the time of death. The only difference is that he no longer has a physical body, but he sees himself in the World of Desire the same as in this life, since in his consciousness there are pictures not only of his entire life lived, but also pictures of that what he looked like here. And as soon as he moves into the World of Desire, these pictures of his consciousness will immediately take on the appropriate form, so that anyone who knew him in earthly life will also recognize him there.

Moreover, it would be good to add that in death there is no power of transformation that a person remains mentally and morally exactly the same as before the moment of death. We often hear in our lives how people who loved someone talk about the person who left them, almost as an angel, even if he was actually a real devil during his lifetime. But they usually think it is disrespectful to the memory of the deceased to address him the same way he deserved during his lifetime.

However, the fact remains that whoever was a good man- will be good even after his death, and the one who had a terrible character will pass into another world without changing at all.

I also have my answer to Vladimir, but unfortunately without the original of his questions, which were very interesting, but I think that in the course of the description you will be able to determine them yourself.

So, a little more clarification about meetings in heaven :

I can’t answer these questions of yours exactly, but exactly how exactly it happensmeeting with family and loved ones. But logically, for this they need, firstly, their own wish to meet and see you. Therefore, if some relatives passed away from a person’s life when he was a baby, then they probably did notthey will be very interested in seeing him, if only they loved that baby and remembered him. In general, here it all depends on the desire of the souls themselves, firstly, and, secondly, for this they also need to obtain permission from the “superiors” above us there.

Regarding orphans, do you mean their parents? After all, during their lives they will still make friends and acquaintances, and they will also be happy to come to meet them. But, if you mean mother and father, then here again everything will depend on the wishes of those parents. In the World of Desire there are 2 laws, if you remember - law of attraction and repulsion. The latter operates in the lower layers of this world, and the former in its upper layers. And, of course, to see your loved one - the law of attraction will operate here and it will automatically make everything happen for your loved ones, attract them to each other.

About those who go through Purgatory on this moment. Remember in the episode how severe the pain is in Purgatory, we looked at what’s there there are rest periods between working off various acts - it is during this period that the soul can see its loved ones or meet a newcomer, if necessary. If they are very busy with work at that time, then I think they will be able to see each other a little later, when they have finished and completed a certain lesson, although I am not entirely sure about this. It seems to me that they can still see other people during detention, it will probably depend on what type of detention.

And maniacs can also be met by relatives if they loved him. A mother, for example, you can’t change a mother’s heart. Or his criminal friends.

But those who died prematurely and suddenly are not always met and they are not even always helped to explain what happened to them. Just recently, a mother wrote to me who lost her son at the age of 22 (he was a drug addict), and she writes that after his death, her son often came into her dreams, called her, didn't understand where he was and kept asking where is he? You see, it means that no one there explained to him what happened to him, because he didn’t even understand that he had already died! By the way, about dreams in which we see the dead: they always show the state of that person in the higher worlds at the time of the dream, i.e. they definitely need to be believed!

As for the panorama, I can definitely assure you that no one except the person viewing it can see it! Only he and no one else is able to view the panorama of his life. So no one there can peek at the actions of other people. Somehow the panorama becomes visible only to the person who owns it.

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Answers to questions about communication with the deceased and the rules for conducting commemoration are described.

Remembering deceased relatives is very important, because it is a certain respect for deceased relatives. But it is important to do it correctly. And how exactly you will find out from the article.

How to properly remember deceased relatives?

All people are mortal. Sometimes their life ends tragically, sometimes by an absurd accident, and sometimes the time just comes. Don't be upset about this. After all, no one is immune from this.

The least that can be done in such a situation is correctly remember and escort the deceased to another place R. All people have different understandings of how to do this correctly. Ignorance on this issue is sometimes astonishing.

You should always look to the church or Scripture for answers.
Many people understand the phrase “remember the deceased” as the distribution of sweets and cookies to people. This is correct, but there are still many customs and rules in this matter.

First of all, it is worth mentioning how to properly bury a person. After all, even in this, many people make mistakes. Mistakes that should not be made:

• Under no circumstances should you remember the deceased alcoholic drinks. Faith forbids this, in many scriptures this is being talked about. Thus, the deceased person will be doomed to inevitable torment. The best way out of the situation is considered to be the distribution of food and clothing to the homeless.
• You shouldn't order a funeral band. Sometimes you walk and hear heartbreaking music. It makes her feel bad and uneasy. It can be used to determine that someone is being buried nearby.
  Wise people say that people come to this music crafty. They rejoice and dance. And the deceased cannot say goodbye to this world calmly.
• People have died and are dying. And it will always be like this. Nowadays, the grave and monument are hung with wreaths. But if you go back in time, you can understand that in those distant times all this did not exist. People always came to the grave with fresh flowers. But the godless times of Soviet power made their own adjustments to this tradition. There is no such custom abroad.
  If you remember the film “Visiting Eternity,” you can be horrified. The hero talked about his journey through that world. There all the people were hanged with wreaths. They became gallows for them. So before you buy a wreath (and they are not cheap), think about the deceased. Does he need it and do you want to send your deceased relative to eternal torment?
• You shouldn't remember a dead person sweet food. Almost everyone does this with candies and cookies. But you shouldn't do that. Such delicacies are foods that are considered to be the weaknesses of gluttons. And with this you only please them, and do not remember the deceased

So what's the right way to do this? What should you do, what should you not do? The answers to these questions should always be sought in the Bible or asked from old people. Any church will help you understand this matter, provide you with the necessary literature and simply give advice.

It is believed that the soul of a person wanders around our earth for another 40 days after death. Most often she is near her body. You should be attentive and listen to all extraneous noises and sensations. After all, a person can contact loved ones.

His soul is searching peace and tranquility. She is trying to reach out to the people around him.

On the fortieth day the soul flies away. And before deciding on her place in heaven, she will have to go through several circles of hell. To help in this Hard time the deceased should read Psalms.

Love for the dead should be shown through funeral services. They are held in any church after morning prayer. You should prepare in advance: buy products. Then you will give them to those in need.

Don't forget about the ban on alcohol and treats. Also, do not lose sight of the fact that for such a ceremony they write a note according to the sample, which indicates the name of the deceased. You should go to funeral services in "parent" Saturdays. These days, the power of prayers increases several times.

There is a special day to remember the dead. He is called funeral. It falls on the ninth day after Easter. This day is called Radonitsa.

Many people go to the grave on Sunday, that is, a week after the holiday. But it's not right. The souls of the dead come to their graves only through set time- 9 days.

Parents' Saturday- the main day of remembrance of the dead

If for some reason you cannot visit the gravestone loved one, then souls come to your home or work. They can also wait for you in church churches.

It happens that a person leaves this life of his own free will. The church does not pray for suicides. They consider this a great sin. But relatives can read the prayer themselves and ask the Lord for forgiveness for the actions of the deceased.

On the date of death or birth of the deceased, order a magpie in church

You can remember a person on the date of his birth and the date of death. Don't forget to order sorokoust in the church. It is better to arrange all funerals a day or two before the expected date.

Do deceased relatives see and hear us?

The church answers this question affirmatively. It’s worth understanding this matter a little and clarifying the main aspects.

According to church beliefs the human soul is immortal. And death is just an intermediate state in which a person is reborn, gains a new body and a new life.

People who have been in a state of clinical death claim that they remember everything and saw their body from the outside. From this we can conclude that death is just a dream. But sleep forgets the body, not the soul. The soul wanders, seeks refuge, visits loved ones.

According to beliefs, a sinful soul gains a chance to atone for its evil deeds. She is reborn and lives life again. Sinless souls go to heaven, to a place where there is no disease, sorrow, or grief. There they follow the lives of their relatives, friends and acquaintances.

They not only hear our speeches, but also look into our souls, read our thoughts and learn about our deepest secrets and desires. Therefore, you should not waste your life just like that, you should not plan bad deeds and commit bad deeds. The souls of our loved ones will suffer.

Do deceased relatives see us in the cemetery?

IN memorial days all relatives and close people of the deceased gather near his grave. There they talk about him, remember all the joyful and happy moments with his participation.

As the saying goes: “they either say good things about a dead person or nothing.” These days, souls also come to the cemetery to see everyone. On other days, the soul that has found peace does not visit the earth. If you decide to visit a deceased person on other days, then he is watching you from heaven.

The church teaches us all this. Skeptics are suspicious of these points. They believe that the person died and his consciousness was forgotten in eternal sleep. It cannot come to life in another reality and watch everyone from the side. This is Vera's business. If it is easier for you to survive the death of a person, hoping that he sees and hears you, then just believe in it.

How to summon the spirit of a deceased relative?

Magic has always made it possible to penetrate into another world, summon the spirit of any deceased person and talk to him. But before the ritual you should think about the consequences. Spirits don't always want to be disturbed.

It is better not to conduct such a dangerous ceremony yourself. You should trust a trusted medium in this matter. Only he can summon the necessary spirit. It is better to conduct spiritualistic seances in a relaxed state, with good thoughts.

You can summon the spirit yourself or seek help from a medium

Alternatively, you can use a Ouija board. Some tips to help summon the spirit of a deceased relative:

• Relax, throw away all your problems and worries, free your mind
• Don't be afraid. If the session is carried out incorrectly, he will come evil spirit. He will feed on your fears
• Smoke the entire room before the session incense
• It is advisable not to eat or drink anything on the day of the ritual, do not drink alcohol for 3 days
• call the spirit at night - after 12 and before 14 o'clock
• place wax candles in the room
• thread a black thread through a needle and make something like a pendulum
• on a piece of paper write down all the questions that you would like to ask the deceased
• call the name of the deceased and call to come
• if the needle begins to move, it means the spirit of the deceased is nearby. You can leave open window, so it will be easier for the soul to get into the room
• If everything worked out for you and you received the answers, then do not forget to thank the spirit for coming and tell him that you are letting him go back

How to communicate and talk with a deceased relative?

Many people are interested in how to talk to dead people. It's not difficult to do. There are several ways to do this:

• Seek help from a medium. Good specialist in this area will provide you with such an opportunity. He will not only do this, but will also tell you what state the soul of the deceased is in, what kind of aura he has, what he is missing. But don't get too carried away with seances
• You can communicate with the dead in your dreams. Sleep is considered a little death. In this state, all human organs stop working. A person simply plunges into oblivion and his consciousness turns off. It is in this state that it is easier to talk to the deceased
• You can also communicate through paper. This method is similar to communicating through a Ouija board. Only in this case will you need paper with written letters and a saucer

You can talk to the dead in your sleep or call them

Can deceased relatives help living ones?

This question cannot be answered unambiguously. Even if this happens, it is in rare cases. The dead only help those who truly need it. They can do this through signs. But people don't always understand them correctly.

There is an opinion that after death the soul is not able to feel anything, it does not know what love or hatred is. Therefore, in this case, there can be no talk of any help.

You shouldn’t “burden” the spirits too much with your problems and requests. After all, man freed himself from the physical body and left the world. He lived a life full of not only joys, but also grief, tears, and sorrows. He drank his cup of sorrows to the dregs. Why would he even experience such emotions in heaven?

How to ask for help from deceased relatives?

In difficult life situations people sometimes turn to deceased parents or relatives for help. There are many prayers and conspiracies for carrying out such actions. Some suggest going to the cemetery, others simply use household items when reading the plot. You should think about such rituals. They are true and they will not bring you even more trouble.

It is better to ask for help through prayer, but from God. This way you will find peace and tranquility. This will help you find a solution to even the most insoluble problem.

If you nevertheless decide to resort to the help of deceased relatives, then below is the plot. It should be read near the grave of the person from whom you are asking for help.
“My dear (my) father (mother) (name of the deceased), get up, wake up, look at me, at your baby. How I mourn in this white world. My dear, look at me, an orphan from your home, and comfort me with kind words.”

You can communicate with a deceased person mentally. In a conversation with him, you can outline the situation and ask for advice. Some people go to church and pray. Within the walls of temples it is easier for them to concentrate and understand what the deceased wants to advise them.

You should not turn to spirits for advice too often.
If you have any doubts about making a decision, go to the cemetery. At the grave of the deceased, you will express everything for and against this situation. And the first thing that comes to your mind, consider the advice of a deceased person

Will deceased relatives meet after death?

This question has always interested close people of a deceased relative. Even the priests do not give an exact answer.
Some mediums claim that will definitely meet. Indeed, in case of clinical death, people say that they met their loved ones there.

But in order to meet them again, a person must be cleansed of sins and go through Purgatory. And only then will he reach Paradise, where all his relatives are waiting for him.
The priests say in this regard that it is possible that they will meet if their final place of residence coincides. And only God knows this.

Do the souls of the dead come to their relatives?

People give many examples that prove that deceased relatives visit their loved ones. Some have things falling, others celebrate the light breeze that cannot occur indoors.

One woman said that her deceased son was calling her from that world. But no one can say for sure that this is the soul, and not a figment of their own imagination.

According to beliefs, the soul wanders the earth for another 40 days. At this time, she visits relatives, close and familiar people. Many people say that they feel the presence of the spirit of the deceased. Sometimes this happens in a dream.

If this happens after forty days, then you should think about it. This usually means that the soul has not found peace. Or the feeling of guilt haunts her, and she wanders in search of forgiveness. Priests advise go to church and light a candle for the repose.

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Hello Olga!

It is difficult to answer why the Lord does not reveal to mothers the fate of their dead children. But if He does not open, we cannot say: “What should He open because He exists.” We do not see that world, but we believe that it exists, and life continues after death. The Church teaches us that everything that happens to people does not remain without the knowledge of the Lord. In the “New Testament” Jesus Christ says the following words: “Are not five little birds sold for two assars? And not one of them is forgotten by God. But even the hairs of your head are all numbered. So do not be afraid: you are worth more than many little ones.” birds" (Luke 12:6-7). The elders of the Russian Orthodox Church say: that the Lord takes away ahead of time so that the souls of the children He takes find salvation.

IN Gospel story there is a place about the killing of infants under 2 years old by Herod the King (Matthew 2:16). History buff Archimandrite Rafil (Karelin) describes this event in his sermons as follows:

“And then the army came out in full armor, sparkling in armor, with swords and spears in their hands. They came out not against the enemies of their homeland, but against defenseless babies. Bethlehem was surrounded by troops, like a besieged city. A terrible beating of children began. Wars threw them into the air and cut them with blows of the sword, trying to cut them in half. They raised them on spears, like a banner is raised on a pole. military glory, but a banner of terrible cruelty and shame. Mothers pressed their children to their breasts, offered ransom, everything they had, for the life of the baby, but the wars were merciless. Wars tore children from their mothers' arms, threw them to the ground, trampled them under their feet, and beat their heads against stones. Some, clutching their child, wanted to run to the mountains to take refuge there. But the wars pursued them as prey, and their arrows nailed the corpse of a mother to the corpse of a daughter or son."
He continues: “Some of you may ask a question, if not out loud, then at least somewhere in the depths of your soul: “Why did the Lord allow the death and torment of innocent children? After all, they did not commit sin and evil?" St. John Chrysostom says this: "If someone took several copper coins from you and gave you gold coins in return, would you really consider yourself offended or disadvantaged? On the contrary, wouldn’t you say that this person is your benefactor?” A few copper coins are our earthly life, which sooner or later ends in death, and gold is eternal life. So, in a few moments of suffering and torment, the babies gained a blissful eternity , gained what the saints achieved through the exploits and labors of their entire lives. They left here, from the face of the earth, being plucked as if by flowers that had not yet blossomed. But they inherited for themselves. eternal life in the circle of Angels.

Christ once told his disciples: “...blessed are the eyes that see what you see! For I tell you that many prophets and kings wanted to see what you see, and did not see, and to hear what you hear, and did not hear.” ". (Luke 10:23-24). Not only the prophets and simple people, but also kings, and the Lord came and revealed himself to simple fishermen.

“Let not your heart be troubled; believe in God, and believe in Me. In My Father’s house are many mansions,” says Christ (John 14: 1-2)

May God give you strong faith!
Sincerely.
Archpriest Alexey