How to use wedding candles after the wedding. Wedding candles: from preparation for the sacrament to family concerns

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Hello, father! I am very worried about what happened. I myself am very trusting and reliable. On October 10, I was walking down the street, a woman came up to me and put 3 candles in my hands, said: today is a big holiday, put these candles in your home, and asked for money to donate to the temple. I told her that if today is a big holiday, then I will go to the temple myself and leave money for a donation. I noticed that she was fussing, and she told me: no, no, you understand, we collect the money ourselves. I gave her money and left. I usually go to church on major holidays, and I know what dates they are on. But only later, after thinking about it, I realized that there was no big holiday on October 10, the nearest one was only Intercession. Now I am very worried that the woman gave me 3 candles, and I took them. Could this woman use candles to cause damage, the evil eye or something else bad? Please advise what should I do with these candles? Is it possible and necessary to throw them away? Or go to church with them and give them away?

Anastasia

Dear Anastasia, don’t be afraid of “damage” and all that. You are the Lord's, and with the Lord. And this woman with candles is just a “creative” beggar. Candles can be taken to the temple, they will be blessed by the priest, and they will be set to burn. Your soul is always disgusted after meeting a manipulator, but you will be consoled by the fact that you have fulfilled the Lord’s command: “Give to him who asks you.” Whether the person asking is really in need or pretending to be, the reward will be the same. God bless you!

Priest Sergius Osipov

Hello! 7 days ago I buried my aunt, she was killed because she was in the ATO zone, and her funeral service was performed by the priest. During the funeral service, all relatives were given candles, and I was the only one whose candle burned out very quickly, while it also crackled and even went out twice, the funeral service took place on the street. Please tell me what this could mean?

Julia

Dear Yulia, please accept my condolences. Kingdom of Heaven for the deceased! It happens that people look for special meaning in everything that is somehow connected with the Church. In the case of a candle, there is no “spiritual” explanation, only natural ones - the candle quickly melts in the wind, and the wick cracks because moisture remains in it, it evaporates when the candle burns, and the air bubble bursts among the wax. God help you!

Priest Sergius Osipov

My mother died... During the funeral service my candle went out, does this mean something, or should I not pay attention? And I myself carried a wreath to the cemetery, this is also just superstition, and you can ignore it? Another question: should mom’s things and the bed where she died be given away (throw away) after 40 days, or is it possible up to 40 days? Is it possible to give away some of my mother’s things to friends before 40 days? Thank you, and forgive my ignorance on these matters. Sincerely,

Irina

Irina, don’t pay attention to superstitions. The most important thing your mother needs now is your prayer for her. Things suitable for use can be distributed to those in need or loved ones as a prayer memory, even if forty days have not passed, and what has become unusable can be disposed of.

Priest Vladimir Shlykov

Good afternoon I have the following question: is it possible to read the akathist without a lit candle, because... It is not always possible to light a candle. Thank you.

Elena

Hello, Elena. A candle helps to get in the mood for prayer; there is no possibility - you can do without it. God help you.

Priest Sergius Osipov

1. Hello, father. I have a question. I have Small child 3.6 years. The child will have surgery soon, perhaps even this month. Tell me, is it possible to light candles in the ward during the operation and pray? Candles were brought from Jerusalem, which were lit in good friday from Holy Fire. 2. My mother died on September 6, 2014, is this possible - sometimes I hear a groan, or is it just me, I don’t even know how to say it, although my deceased mother lived on western Ukraine, and I live in Moscow. Why is that? And I clearly hear these moans. I really don’t think about my mother’s death, I’m more worried about the child’s surgery. I wasn’t at the funeral, my child was sick, but when she was buried, I went to Mother Matronushka and lit candles for the repose and ordered a magpie for the repose, and the same thing for nine days. Tell me, what does this mean? 3. And also, please tell me, is it true that a child should eat prosphora strictly on an empty stomach? Thank you. Sorry for so many questions. Answer personally. God bless you.

Svetlana

Hello Svetlana. 1. The candle has an exclusively unitary meaning. Firstly, the purchase of a candle is a donation to the temple in whose shop it was purchased. Secondly, a burning candle symbolizes prayer. However, the symbol of prayer does not replace the prayer itself. Neither the Lord nor His saints require candles. Icons, candles and lamps are necessary for most convenient location the mood of the soul to pray. Therefore, lighting a candle in itself will not bring any benefit. But if you pray as fervently as a candle burns, the benefits will be undeniable. Regarding whether it is possible to light candles in a hospital room, ask the medical staff, I have doubts that this is allowed. Perhaps there is a temple, a chapel, or at least a prayer room at the hospital; it is better to pray there. 2. Do not trust your sensory experiences, they can be various reasons: power of imagination, painful memories, demonic suggestion. But it is absolutely certain: under no circumstances can we hear, see or communicate with the dead. By God's providence, they are in another reality, which does not intersect with our world anywhere. And here fallen spirits- demons are in our world, and take advantage of the ignorance and gullibility of many. Once you trust your feelings, which are incapable of knowing and correctly perceiving the spiritual nature, the enemies of the human race, demons, will subsequently easily control this person. Forbid yourself to listen to the “moans”. Close the gates of the soul with the prayer: “Lord Jesus Christ, have mercy on me.” 3. Prosphora is supposed to be eaten in the morning, after prayers, before breakfast. An exception can be made for a child, but it is necessary to teach a reverent attitude towards the shrine from an early age. God help you.

Priest Alexander Beloslyudov

Hello, I would like to ask for advice on what to do with wedding candles. I’m not married, and several years ago, either out of oblivion or ignorance (I don’t remember exactly now), I went with my friends to some granny, she read prayers there... she’s not a psychic, but some kind of she gave advice. So, she gave us wedding candles and told us to light and read the spell for 10 days... I started, but didn’t finish. Of course, I realized this sin a long time ago and confessed. But I don’t know what to do with these candles. I don’t dare throw them away, they are still church, but it’s scary to light them, it’s a sin. Tell me what to do!

Olesya

Burn it in the stove. It is not a sin to burn something sacrificed to idols.

Archpriest Maxim Khizhiy

Hello! The other day I accidentally broke a wedding candle while attaching it next to the icons. Now I'm very worried. Is this bad, and what should I do? Thank you!

Marina

Dear Marina, don’t worry, it’s not scary at all, except that it’s just a shame when a memento is somehow damaged. But this does not stop the candle from being a wonderful reminder of a joyful event; let it continue to be with the icons. God bless you.

Priest Sergius Osipov

Good afternoon. Today I was treated with prayers... It was not in church, but at home. One candle was burning, and at one moment I felt bad - I felt dizzy, nauseous, and started sweating.

Julia

Feeling sick because you trusted the servant of Satan. You need to be treated in a hospital. And to turn to God in a legal way and by legal means, through the Church established by the Lord Jesus Christ, who said: “Whoever does not enter by the door into the sheepfold, but climbs in elsewhere, is a thief and a robber” (John 10.1). “The sheepfold” is the Kingdom of Heaven, the “door” is the Church of Christ, “to climb elsewhere” means to invade by witchcraft and magic where only God can enter. Thieves and robbers will be dealt with as they should be - they will be thrown out. We must repent and do penance before the demonic obsession begins to take effect. Otherwise there will be sorrows.

Priest Alexander Beloslyudov

Hello, I have a question, when I was in church at a service, a lit candle fell from the memorial table near me, I picked it up, lit it, and put it where it stood. And then I realized that you can’t touch other people’s candles or set them on fire. I don’t know what to do now.

Hello, Yana. Continue to do the same. A candle is simply a candle, a device for lighting, consisting of wax, paraffin and thread. On one side they set it on fire, and on the other they put it in a candlestick. A candle burning in a temple symbolizes prayer, but is not itself a prayer - you must pray the way a candle burns - brightly, and not sparing yourself. The candle also symbolizes a sacrifice, but is not a sacrifice - a sacrifice for the temple is the cost of the candle that you put in the candle box. It doesn’t matter how the candle burns, goes out or falls, flows or not. Don't pay any attention to these speculations.

Priest Alexander Beloslyudov

Hello! At my children’s wedding, the “hearth” candle they were lighting went out, tell me, does this affect their future family life? I’m very worried now, and the thoughts won’t go away.

Larisa

Larisa, such a candle is just a beautiful wedding tradition. But what will really affect family life is the ardent desire of both spouses to save the family, their readiness for patience and self-sacrifice

Priest Vladimir Shlykov

Hello, father! Once upon a time I went to a fortune teller, she told me to buy candles in the church, and she used them to tell fortunes, but not to find out the future or anything else bad, but to find out what was going wrong in life then. I went to see her a couple of times, and then I didn’t want to go anymore, because it was wrong. My conscience torments me for this, that I went to her, I already went to church, confessed, repented. But I still have these candles at home, and I don’t know what to do with them, my conscience is tormenting me that they are lying at home, right to the point of psychosis. Tell me, where should I put these candles? I went to the priests, one told me that I needed to throw them into the river, the other said that I needed to bring them to church and throw them away, where they throw candle stubs. So where should we put them, to the river or to church? Help me, this is how you can go crazy, this torments me so much. Thank you!

Natalia

Hello, Natalia. It doesn't matter what you do with them. The main thing is that you remain determined not to sin in the future and not to betray Christ. A candle is just a candle. Lighting fixture. It becomes a sacrifice to God only when we light it with prayer, and set up our prayer so that it burns like a candle. A candle can be called a symbol of prayer, but in itself it is just an object. Go to the temple where you bought them, because the payment for the candles went as a donation to this temple, light them in front of the image of the Savior, and make three prostrations for each candle with the prayer: “Lord, have mercy on me, foolish, and forgive me my lack of faith.”

Priest Alexander Beloslyudov

During fasting, should a candle burn all day, or maybe even night?

Lyudmila

During fasting, you need to practice ascetic deeds and prayer, but whether the candle is lit at the same time is not at all important.

Deacon Ilya Kokin

Hello! When I was cleaning, I accidentally broke the wedding candle, what should I do now?

Olga

Olga, you don't need to do anything. The main thing in our life is not the candle and its condition, but how we spend this life. You need to fulfill the Gospel Commandments, go to church regularly, confess and receive communion, in a word, be a Christian.

Hieromonk Victorin (Aseev)

During the funeral service in the church, the candle in my hands went out three times. I know that there were no drafts in the church. What does it mean?

Tatiana

Tatyana, candles can be of poor quality, and there is no need to attach any importance to this.

Hieromonk Victorin (Aseev)

Hello, father. My mother died, and when she was being buried, my candle went out. There was no wind, it happened at home. I immediately lit the candle, and the funeral service continued. A friend says it's Bad sign. What to do?

Love

Hello, Love. Don't take such words from your friends seriously - that's what to do. This incident doesn't mean anything. A person, living outside the tradition of the Church, is forced to invent his own content of life - signs and superstitions. Let us not follow this, but by praying regularly in church, let us become imbued with the understanding of life that the Mother Church gives. God bless you.

Priest Sergius Osipov

Hello. I asked in the temple for the health of one person, and when I said his first and middle name and last name, the candle (red, bought in the same temple) crackled very much, and the rest of the time it burned quietly. Does this mean anything?

Elisha

Elisha, it doesn't mean anything. Candles are of poor quality.

Hieromonk Victorin (Aseev)

Christ is Risen! Help, please, I am very worried, at Easter I discovered that one wedding candle was broken, the children would not admit who broke the candle, what to do and what to do, what prayers should be read? Thank you for your answer, may the Lord bless you.

Olesya

Truly Christ is risen! Yes, you don’t need to do anything, this is not the needle of Koshchei the Immortal - if you break it, he will die. You can divide this candle into two and place it in church for the health of your loved ones.

Deacon Ilya Kokin

Hello, father! Please tell me what this could mean: I was in church at Christmas and bought candles there. She placed several of them in the temple, and brought several home. In the evening we decided to light a candle at home near the icons. When the candle was burning, the wax began to fly off from it in large, pretty pieces and fall. I examined one of the pieces, and saw there the image of a woman holding a baby in her arms. Before, when candles were burning at home or in church, I had never experienced anything like this. Tell me, what could this mean?

Natalia

Natalia, you don’t need to imagine or imagine anything. Candles “shoot” like this only because they are very often of poor quality, made in violation of manufacturing technology.

Hieromonk Victorin (Aseev)

Hello, father. Recently, at the entrance to our city church, an inscription appeared: “Candles purchased outside the church are not a charitable sacrifice.” For some reason, this inscription jars me, I want to turn around and leave, is such a protrusion of material things in God’s house compatible, after all, people go both with grief and with gratitude, namely to God, and to them here - here you go, please, God cannot exist without money accepts... It is clear that the temple also needs to exist for something, but after all, the temple is for the people, and not the people for the temple? Today just such a situation happened to me, I came to a new church under construction, bought candles at the entrance, but it turned out to be closed for technical reasons, but I really wanted to thank the Lord for successful operation, and I had to go just to that temple where “you can’t bring your own.” Of course, I did what I wanted, but some kind of negative aftertaste remained. I would really like to know your opinion, thanks in advance.

Hello, Yana. The candle itself doesn't mean anything. The custom of lighting candles is ancient. There was no electricity then, the temple was lit by candles and lamps. The parishioners brought everything they needed to the temple. Hence, by the way, the name “proskomedia” - offering. Everything needed for worship was brought by the parishioners. It was a feasible sacrifice, a divinely established tithe. Now the temple is illuminated with electricity, and candles and lamps are lit symbolically. The sacrifice for the maintenance of the parish is not the offering of candles, oil, Cahors and bread, but the purchase of all this in the church store. I assure you that if you throw a ruble into a candle box, but do not take the candle and light it, then the benefit will be greater than from the same action, but with lighting a candle. Formally, the call to light only those candles that were purchased in this temple is logical. And even the fact that it causes embarrassment is also good. After all, there is something to think about: “It turns out that I am easily offended by such a trifle. What will happen if I encounter a person who is clearly sinning, will I hate him?” Lord have mercy.

Priest Alexander Beloslyudov

Tell me what to do? Everything is bad in my family, big debts, problems because of these debts! I can’t sleep, my little daughter, there are no parents to help. I go to church, I pray, church candles I burn, I bless the apartment with holy water, but things are not going well, I give up! I beg you, I believe that you can help me.

Galina

Hello, Galina. Christianity has not developed means and methods for a successful arrangement in temporary life. All his goals and interests are beyond the limits of this world and this time. Christ set these goals, and no amount of prayers or candles can force Christ to stop being Christ. The reality is that we cannot live without sorrows. If we accept sorrows as a bitter but necessary medicine, with patience and complacency, then the sorrows are reduced both in duration and in volume. If we resist and are indignant, then we push away the bitter medicine. The illness intensifies, sorrows increase and lead to despair. I have no doubt that you will prefer the first path, because the second leads to nowhere. Start by forcing yourself to thank God. Give thanks for everything He gives. Nothing happens to us without His will. And His will is to lead all people to salvation and eternal life. This means that everything that happens to us serves this purpose. Let's force ourselves to be grateful. In relation to life's difficulties, do what you can, and leave the impossible beyond your attention. God help you.

Priest Alexander Beloslyudov

This article is dedicated to both those who have already gotten married and those who are just about to begin this sacrament. Here you will find detailed answers to many questions, which are compiled according to the opinions and answers of Orthodox pastors.

Wedding candles are our main theme. Before you start reading, it should be explained that each subheading is a frequently asked question for married couples. The following is the answer to it.

Why get married?

There are several sacraments in Orthodoxy, one of them is wedding. It is necessary for the spouses to sanctify their marriage, to make a promise before God to always be together in fidelity, love, and harmony. At the same time, the husband and wife, together with the clergy, pray for the sanctification of the marriage. Be sure to take wedding rings to the wedding, which the priest sanctifies and puts on the newlyweds on their wedding day. ring fingers is a symbol of eternity. But in spiritual sense we're talking about about Eternity (with a capital E), as about life after death. It is not without reason that they say that married spouses meet in heaven after death and never separate again.

What is needed and the question price?

If the couple is not rich, they will definitely ask the question: “How much does a wedding cost?” In fact, it is impossible to answer this question unequivocally. Let's list what is necessary for a wedding:

• personal presence of both spouses;
• neat appearance spouses (a suit on the groom, a modest long (preferably white) dress on the bride and a scarf/stole/veil);
• wedding rings, if there are none, then wedding rings;
• two wedding candles;
• towel (towel);
• two icons: the Savior and the Mother of God.

if you have suitable clothes and shoes for the ceremony, then you do not need to spend on outfits.

Availability wedding rings from the registry office is allowed. You don't have to buy a new pair. If there are none, then it is advisable to buy a gold ring for the husband, and a silver one for the wife. These were the traditions in past centuries, and they continue to this day.

You can choose the simplest and cheapest wedding candles, or the most expensive, festively decorated ones.

You can sew a towel yourself or ask your family and friends to do it. In church shops they are sold at different prices, depending on the material, the complexity of the pattern.

You can bring icons from home so as not to buy new ones.

Which candles are better to choose?

Priests and married couples advise purchasing high-quality wedding candles only in church shops/shops. It is not advisable to buy second hand, as you risk getting a fake.

During the wedding, candles must burn and not go out. In addition, the sacrament can last from 45 minutes to 1 hour. Buy thick, large candles. It is even possible with handles and saucers provided so that dripping wax does not burn your hands.

The price of the sacrament

Let's talk about how much a wedding costs. In fact, it's different everywhere. In Moscow, as a rule, the cost is approximately 5 to 10 thousand rubles. Last price – Cathedral of Christ the Savior.

IN provincial cities the cost is ten times lower. Many priests perform weddings for a donation (as much as you give) or for free (if the family is in dire straits). Usually, married couple he simply donates a towel, wedding candles or clothes to the temple for those in need.

Where should I put the candles?

You brought home wedding candles. What to do with them now? You have two options:

• you can place it on candlesticks next to wedding and other icons;
• put into a special box with shrines (brought from pilgrimage trips oil, land, baptismal shirts and crosses, holy water, prosphora and incense, and so on).

Keep candles in a secluded place so that they are not broken by children or chewed by pets. If suddenly the candles break, do not be alarmed, superstitions have no place in Christianity. Just handle them carefully.

Can I light candles?

Many happy couples, who have just consecrated their marriage, forget to ask the priest: “When can you light wedding candles?” But it's never too late to get an answer to this question. This is what the pastors advise - light wedding candles for a reason, but with warm and fervent prayer, especially in moments such as:

• grief;
• joy;
• wedding and wedding anniversaries;
• birth of children;
• quarrels, family discord;
• desire to pray for each other.

You can pray for other reasons.

In conclusion, let's say that a wedding candle is a symbol of faith, love and hope. It is enough to light them to bring peace and tranquility to your soul. And prayer will come from the depths of the soul itself. So that there are enough wedding candles for for many, many years, do not spare money, buy large ones and from high-quality material.

The sacrament of wedding is a serious, responsible step, one of the church rites that unites spouses in life and after death. You should prepare for it spiritually and physically, because this is a step towards family life until death separates the couple. However, recently some couples thoughtlessly decide to get married, without realizing the seriousness of this action. Such relationships are often short-lived. Unfortunately, marriages often break up. Divorce statistics in Russia are very disappointing - more than half of registered relationships end in divorce.

How to get a divorce if the spouses were married?

In practice, debunking does not exist. The spouses are divorced in the registry office, according to the laws, and live separately. If one of the spouses wants to get married again, then he needs to submit a petition to the bishop for permission to remarriage.

This procedure is called “debunking,” although in fact it is receiving a blessing for a subsequent marriage

Thus, the answer to the question is it possible to get married a second time after a divorce - yes, it is possible, with the permission of the church. You can get married up to three times. But the reasons for divorce, according to church regulations, must be significant. An excuse like “they don’t get along” will not work.

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The Church has an extremely negative attitude towards any divorce, considering it a tragedy and a kind of death of the family. Especially if it's a wedding. But in any case, if family life turns out to be impossible for one or both spouses, then divorce is inevitable.

The consequences of this difficult decision may be difficult, but this is a matter of conscience for each spouse. The Church does not impose any contempt or punishment on divorced people - it's everyone's personal business, and they will answer to themselves and to God. Important question, which people who are planning to get a divorce should ask themselves - is it possible to save the family or is it impossible.

How does church divorce happen?

Since there is no such thing as a church divorce after a wedding, there is only the concept of obtaining permission to remarry, this issue should be considered from the point of view of receiving a blessing.

Reasons for for the church to declare the marriage invalid:

• betrayal of one of the spouses;
• change of religion of one of the spouses;
• entering into another marriage;
• abortion of a wife without the consent of her husband in the absence medical indications to termination of pregnancy;
• sexually transmitted diseases such as AIDS, syphilis and so on;
• an attempt to encroach on the life of the other spouse;
• disappearance of one spouse for more than 3 years;
• inability to have children due to self-mutilation;
• severe form of drug addiction, alcoholism;
• if the spouse is sentenced to imprisonment for serious crimes.

Cause must be proven relevant document or other evidence or certificate.

Spouses must be divorced at the registry office before obtaining permission

To apply, you need to contact the local Diocesan administration, where they will tell you how to make a request correctly and in whose name.

The petition must be accompanied by a divorce certificate and other documents confirming the reason for the divorce. If the bishop considers the grounds for divorce to be compelling, he will give permission for a second wedding. However, if the spouse, through whose fault the divorce occurred - infidelity, entering into another marriage, and so on - wants to get married again, then he will most likely be denied such a petition, since he is guilty of the collapse of his previous family. You need to understand that They don’t just give blessings for a wedding.

If you are in doubt about what is best to do, you can always consult with your confessor or the same priest who performed the wedding ceremony. If this is not possible, you can go to a nearby temple and talk to the priest. Most likely, he will answer all questions and help with advice on what to do in the current difficult situation.

What to do with wedding candles after divorce?

The candles that the newlyweds hold in their hands during the wedding are called wedding candles. After performing their sacrament bring home and store along with the icons that were used to bless the newlyweds for marriage.

Wedding candles are not a shrine, so there is no need to perform any special rituals

Candles are possible burn for prayer or take it to the temple. It is not forbidden to leave them and store them in a box or next to the icons. You should not throw them away or give them to someone else. Although the signs and superstitions associated with candles are mostly fiction, it is worth finding a better use for them.

Rushnik (towel) You can also donate to the temple if it unpleasantly reminds you of a broken marriage.

Towel left after divorce

What to do with wedding icons after divorce?

Wedding icons are called paired icons with the image Holy Mother of God and Jesus Christ, with which spouses are blessed during the sacrament of wedding.

Icons can be donated to the temple, indicating that they are wedding icons. But icons do not depend in any way on when and under what circumstances they were acquired. Nothing prevents you from praying in front of them and lighting candles.

If wedding icons do not evoke any sad associations, then let them remain in the house, along with other icons, if any.

As for the wedding ring and dress, again, you can keep them or donate a ring to the temple, alter the dress or give it away, or maybe even throw it away. A dress, a ring - these are just things, memorable, but not possessing any mystical power. They do not in any way affect a person's life after a divorce.

You can donate a ring to the temple

Divorce is always a tragic event, even if it frees the spouses from an unhappy family life. Before legalizing a repeat relationship, you need to weigh everything and take the issue of getting married again seriously. Despite the fact that the church allows you to get married more than once, you should not use this permission lightly, especially if this is not the first wedding for the newlyweds.

Let's take a closer look at the love spell on wedding candles - with detailed description all magical actions so that the ritual does not have negative consequences.

A candle love spell is one of the most popular ways to evoke feelings in your chosen one using love magic. Twisted church candles are most often used. Let's talk about the rules and methods of such a magical ritual.

What candles are suitable for the ceremony?

Why is a candle love spell so powerful? The fact is that the wax from which candles are made is an excellent conductor of energy. And fire is a powerful element that enhances the magical effect of the ritual several times.

It is important to use the “correct” candles for the ceremony:

• They must be made of wax. Paraffin and other candles are not suitable
• Buy candles at a church store. The best time is Friday, first half of the day
• It’s great if you can find red candles - they have the most powerful energy

It is better to buy candles with a reserve.

Love spell rules

There are some other rules that must be followed for the ritual to work properly:

1. The love spell is done at night. The best time is after midnight
2. All other light sources in the room must be extinguished.
3. Nobody should disturb you. Make sure that no household members or pets will enter the room during the ritual.
4. The room should reign perfect cleanliness. Clutter creates interference, prevents the “correct” energy from circulating
5. You must sincerely and unconditionally believe that the love spell will work. Doubts prevent love magic from showing its power
6. No one should know about your intention to perform the ritual. Keep your actions secret
7. Your intentions must be good - do not try to bewitch a person out of resentment, revenge or anger. Negative emotions will certainly create unpleasant consequences for the soul of the chosen one and yours
8. Cast a love spell on a waxing moon or a new moon. At this time, lunar energy is aimed at creation

Follow all these rules strictly, and then the result will not be long in coming.

When does a love spell not work?

A love spell on twisted candles is quite powerful. But in some cases it does not help to bewitch a loved one. What reasons can hinder the action of love magic:

• Someone has already bewitched your chosen one. In such cases, you first need to do the lapel ritual. Please note that you must know exactly who cast the spell on the man before you
• The man already has feelings for someone else. If this is true and strong love, magic will be powerless
• The person being bewitched has very strong positive energy. It can become a serious barrier through which no love spell can penetrate

In other cases, the love spell should work.

Love spell on two candles

This is the most popular way to bewitch your chosen one. Making a love spell is quite simple. You will need:

• Two wax church candles. Preferably white or any other you like
• Pink plain tablecloth. It must be new, purchased specifically for the love spell.
• Foil. You can buy regular food foil
• Candle stands. It is best if they are also new and made of metal
• Safety pin. Also new

Prepare everything you need, wait until midnight on the night of the waxing Moon and get ready to cast a love spell. Place a tablecloth on the table and use a red chalk to draw a heart in the center.

Place two candles in a stand in the center of the heart and light them.

Clearly pronounce the words of the love spell:

There is no need to extinguish the candles - wait until they burn out naturally. Collect the melted wax and carefully place it on the foil while it is still liquid. Wait until it hardens completely and use a pin to scratch the names: yours and the one you want to bewitch.

After the ceremony, hide all used items in a secluded place. Make sure that no one accidentally discovers the cache. The love spell will take effect within three days.

Strong love spell on two twisted candles

About this love spell on two twisted church candles, those who made it leave good feedback. It is believed that this is one of the most powerful rituals of love magic.

You will need two wax church candles purchased from the church. Take each of the candles in turn in your hands and say the words of the love spell:

After this, you need to light the candles and wait until the wax softens a little and becomes plastic. Then twist the candles together. These are preparatory manipulations before the ritual itself.

For forty days, at the same time, you must light twisted candles and mentally imagine the image of the person you are trying to bewitch. Try to do this quickly so that there is enough wax for the entire period.

After forty days, only cinders will remain from the candles, and the love spell will be considered completed and will come into force.

Keep in mind that this love spell is very powerful - it will tie your chosen one to you forever. If you are not ready for such a long relationship, it is better to use other methods.

Watch a video about a love spell on twisted candles:

The “whitest” love spell

If you're afraid negative consequences that may happen to you and your chosen one as a result of a love spell, refuse traditional methods love magic.

The usual female tricks will help you “bewitch” a man:

• Always look good: clean hair, neat manicure, eyelashes made up, eyebrows plucked, at least
• Don't focus on your chosen one: fill your life interesting events, people, hobbies
• Don't be intrusive, let the man take the initiative
• He needs to see that other men also like you - surround yourself with fans

If you become a bright, interesting person, with many things to do and hobbies, then a man will certainly pay attention to you. And if not, someone else will appear, and a love spell will not be needed.

How to bewitch your loved one

Many people have heard about love spells, what they are. But hardly anyone has thought specifically about the incredible power these rituals have, how powerful, harmful or, conversely, useful they are. On the one hand, a love spell may well help you achieve a specific goal. On the other hand, it can sometimes cause irreparable harm to human health and life. Both the performer of the love spell and the object on whom the ritual was performed can suffer.

Information about love spells that people need to know

In essence, any love spell can be considered as imposing one’s will and desires on another person. By performing the ritual, you force him to experience feelings that he did not have before. Love spells are performed both by experienced magicians and sorcerers, and by people themselves. Knowing all the subtleties and nuances this process, you can completely simply perform a love spell ritual at home.

But it is important to remember about the so-called rollback. In magic, a kickback is called retribution, a kind of retribution for what has been done. If a love spell is performed incorrectly, incorrectly, without following the “instructions” and descriptions, then it may simply not work. But more important point- if you cast a love spell incorrectly, you risk not only your life and health, but also those of others.

The effectiveness and efficiency of the ritual depends not only on the correctness of its implementation, but also on the energy, the size of the biofield, the strength and power of the performer. If the magician has very strong energy, then the love spell will be good. This magical ritual takes effect immediately after execution. The most popular love spells today are love and sex.

People can search for their soulmate for a long time, and, in despair, turn to magic and its rituals. Of course, this can be done, only carefully. The time of reckoning will come anyway. You can’t be nice by force - for some reason, many people forget about this. After all, being obsessed with one person, completely falling in love with him, can completely cloud your mind.

People just don't know what they're doing; they are ready to do anything to quickly get the object of their desires and dreams. Whether this is good or bad - everyone decides for themselves. But always remember: not a single love spell or other magical ritual will bring happiness. There is also fate, themis. She knows exactly what you need at a given, specific period in your life. You can't fool fate, no matter how hard you try. No amount of magic will help if a person simply doesn’t love you.

Yes, the love spell will work, feelings may appear, but you may not receive happiness and prosperity. When performing a love spell, if you have already decided on it, you must be prepared for absolutely anything!

Is it possible to recognize a love spell, to somehow determine it in yourself or another person?

When someone cast a love spell on a person, it manifests itself immediately. Symptoms of a love spell can be similar to any colds. But things here are much more serious, drugs will not help. To begin with, the mood drops; the person does not want anything. He doesn't know what happened and what to do about it all. I don’t want to go to work, or go for a walk, or play sports, or anything! All existing diseases worsen, the body tries to cope with external interference.

Behavior also suffers - the bewitched person becomes inadequate. If before he was quite quiet and calm, now he has become violent, even aggressive. This is all the effect of a love spell. In addition to organs, magic “amazes” and nervous system. Now about thoughts.

They are completely occupied by one person - the customer - as if “the light has converged like a wedge” on him. The “victim” of a love spell cannot think about anyone else. He himself doesn’t understand where the feelings came from if they weren’t there before. The behavior and general emotional and psychological state of the object of the love spell is difficult to explain. He himself also cannot explain what happened, what is happening in general.

Usually people who have a love spell cast on them become radically different. If before a person was an excellent family man, an excellent worker and a loyal friend, now all this is not interesting to him. The bewitched person begins to rapidly move away from his family; he has no time for friends, and no desire either. You have to work as if under pressure. Everything became foreign.

What factors does the power of a love spell depend on?

First of all, from distance. Everything will depend on how far the victim is from the magician and the place where the love spell is performed. If everything happens in one city, then the ritual works immediately. When the distance is several thousand kilometers, you will have to wait. The ritual may not manifest itself immediately.

If the distance between the customer and the object is decent, then the love spell may have a weak effect. Let's say a person won't think about you around the clock. Yes, he will start thinking about you, but he won’t do this every day, not all day long.

Another, no less significant factor is illness. If your subject is sick with something, but you didn’t know about it, you cast a love spell, then the consequences can be the saddest. The patient’s body is already weakened, and there is an additional “load” - external interference.

The body, of course, will continue to fight, but all organs and systems will not function properly. A person can fall ill, even die. Therefore, be careful if you want to cast a love spell. Before carrying out the ritual, it would be good to make sure the physical and psychological state your object. Otherwise, you can do a lot of bad things and take sin on your soul.

The consequences of love spells, what are they?

Any business has a result and consequences, a love spell will not be an exception. If we talk about the most famous and powerful consequences of such a ritual as a love spell, then these will be: hatred and “return”. The first may occur if a bewitched person finds out that a ritual is being performed on him. There's nothing you can do about it. I'll have to answer. And the second is a rollback.

It happens on an energetic level. If a person discovers a love spell in himself and removes it, then everything done will come back to you. Be prepared for anything, once you decide to use magic.

How to bewitch your loved one

Almost all female representatives dream of having great and bright love in their lives. Some people are lucky enough to meet their destiny without the help of magic. Such people are happy in their relationships. But there are also women who simply cannot meet a worthy partner for family life.

Having a clear picture in your head of what it should be like ideal man, they are trying to find more or less suitable candidates and “adjust” them so that they fit into the framework of the ideal canon.

Desperate from a long search and expectation of love, women are ready to go to extreme measures in order to ultimately find personal happiness. Many girls rush headlong to magicians and fortune tellers with requests to make strong love spell. Today, information about love spells of any kind can be found without difficulty.

Having “fed up” such information, representatives of the fairer sex are confident that this is their only and last chance to find woman's happiness. Often, in a blind desire to get married, girls do not think at all about the consequences of love spells.

White and black love spells

In magical practice, there are both white and black love spells. You should not assume that a white love spell does not entail responsibility. By white love spell we mean magic ritual, during which black paraphernalia is not used. Such love spells are carried out using church and wedding candles, icons, spells, white scarves, wedding veils and much more.

A black love spell is a ritual performed by a black magician. Such magicians use human or animal blood, black candles, funeral paraphernalia, knives, mirrors and sharp objects in their practice. In fact, both love spells are sinful because they break a person’s karma. Not only light, but also dark magicians warn about this.

They always leave the right of choice to the person own actions and believe that they are not responsible for the ritual performed. Their task is to bring you and your chosen one together with those spirits that will influence his consciousness.

Love spell on church candles

To carry out such a love spell, you need to have church candles at home. There are several similar rituals that require the use of one, two, three, twelve or forty candles. It is advisable to buy candles in a church, where they are filled with appropriate energy drinks. Wax is an excellent conductor of energy, so a love spell made on candles will work very quickly.

Love spell with one church candle

To ensure that nothing interferes with the ceremony, you need to retire to a quiet place. A love spell should be cast during the waxing moon. It is believed that the first ten days of the lunar cycle are the most favorable for casting a love spell. When the new moon appears in the sky in the evening, you should open the window and lay out all the necessary paraphernalia in front of it.

In front of the icon of the Virgin Mary, you need to light a candle and place a glass of holy water and blessed salt. Next, read a special plot for marriage, drink three sips of water, wait until the candle burns out completely and sprinkle the cinder with salt. The icon must be hidden under the pillow until the next new moon period.

Love spell on three church candles

It is believed that three church candles during the women's rite symbolize the three holy saints - the Virgin Mary, Mary Magdalene and Anna the Great Martyr. It's great if you have all three icons. If there are none, then in this case It’s better to turn to a knowledgeable woman for help. She definitely has the necessary paraphernalia in her arsenal.

In order for the love spell to be reliable, you should light a church candle in front of each icon and turn to each intercessor in prayer. Before the ceremony begins, you should read the “Our Father” prayer three times, then drink three sips of water brought from the church.

After this, you should take turns asking all the holy intercessors to preserve your relationship with your lover and send happiness, health and family well-being. When the candles have burned down to half, they should be extinguished and tied together with white ribbon. At the end of the ritual, read the “Our Father” prayer again and cross yourself three times in front of each icon.

Love spell on wedding candles

Wedding candles are considered the most suitable for performing a love spell ritual. They store wedding energy and automatically transmit the information about the wedding embedded within them to your biofield. This way you are preparing yourself for a quick marriage. It is not advisable to use wedding candles from the wedding of the couple who separated.

Before performing a ceremony with wedding candles, you need to keep them in your home for several days. This way the wax will be saturated with your energy. You should cast a love spell on the first three days of the new moon. To make a love spell reliable, it should be carried out in three stages. The first stage is a ritual on the first day of the new moon.

To carry it out, you need to tie and light together all the wedding candles you have near the icon of the Virgin Mary. Then, on your knees, ask the Mother of God for health for yourself and your chosen one, for a speedy wedding and family well-being. After prayer, you need to wash your face with water brought from the church and fumigate the room with dried herbs (they should also be church herbs).

This ritual should be performed three evenings in a row before bed. Wedding candle stubs should be kept at home throughout the next year. They will protect your relationship with your man from envy and the evil eye.

The most powerful love spells are made for a period of five to seven years. If you decide to make a love spell yourself, then its validity period will expire earlier. You can count on about six months or a year. If during this time you realize that you were in a hurry to choose a life partner and this person is not suitable for you, then you should not perform the ritual again. It is unlikely that you will be able to make yourself and the man next to you happy.

Love spell, the most powerful love spell on church candles - black wedding

Most strong ritual with the reading of a plot for ardent love done on twisted church candles . Powerful binary love spell instant action. If needed not a binary love spell do love spell on apple. As soon as you twist 2 two candles together and read them love spell spell will begin to work immediately ! Remove a love spell on twisted candles yourself It’s practically impossible and it’s only done if you really love a person and he doesn’t love you. Many magicians call it for a reason love spell on twisted (twisted together) candles - “black wedding” .

How to make your own love spell on church candles twisted together

The magic on church candles is very strong and requires precise execution. On Friday you need to buy 2 candles from the church. Love spell using candles twisted together can be read any day. To twist candles together, you need to warm them up a little by holding them in your hands and feeding them with your energy. The moment you start twisting the candles together, say the text of the spell :

How are these candles twisted together?

so you and I (our names) will be retinue.

When the candles are twisted together, light them in front of the icon of Jesus Christ, saying love spell text :

On this love spell on twisted church candles not finished. Ongoing magic ritual for love 9 more days in a row. Calculate that over 9 days the candles will burn out for the same amount of time and will be completely burnt out by the end. Candles are extinguished only with your fingers, and light up with words of conspiracy :

I don’t light candles, but the soul and heart of God’s servant (name) for me, God’s servant (name), forever. Amen.

On the ninth day twisted church candles must burn completely!

A love spell for the Presentation of the Lord helps you meet your love, get married quickly, or strengthen and rekindle the love feelings of your loved one. There is a belief that on Candlemas winter meets spring, and by reading a prayer on this day - a spell for love, the Lord helps loving souls meet and forever bind people with a feeling of pure and true love for each other. After reading the plot for love on the day of Candlemas magical influence begins at the same hour and the person on whom the love spell was cast - the spell begins to experience a strong love attraction for his soul mate, even if you don’t know each other yet, soon through a series of events you will meet and

The Protection of the Most Holy Theotokos, although religious holiday, but all conspiracies and rituals for love on this day have enormous power. Especially if on the Intercession you read conspiracies and prayers to strengthen love, for a quick marriage or meeting and getting to know your betrothed. According to tradition, on the day of the Intercession of the Most Holy Theotokos in the church, after reading a prayer from her icon, you can beg a good, rich and successful groom and marry your loved one in the same year. I will now tell you what prayer to read on Intercession. When you come to any church or chapel, light a candle to the Mother of God and say the following:

Christmas, Advent and Christmas Week are the most best time for reading spells and performing magical rituals. Ancient conspiracies and magical rituals for love read on the Nativity fast can quickly make the person you like fall in love with you. In addition to falling in love, with the help of a conspiracy, you can very quickly marry a man by influencing him with the help of Christmas love magic. So, if you need to make a guy fall in love with you or force an adult man to marry with the help of magic, the following Christmas ritual and love spell read during Christmas will help fulfill this desire

A conspiracy will help you meet your husband or fall in love with the man you like - a prayer for love to the Blessed Virgin Mary, which must be read on any day during the Dormition Fast. This very old belief has already helped many married women and widows quickly get married and live in happy marriage with my husband, enjoying every moment spent next to my loved one. This is not a magical ritual, but a conspiratorial prayer addressed to Mother of God asking for help in starting a family. As was said earlier, on any day of the Dormition Fast, go to church and read the text of the conspiracy - prayers for

Petrov fast is famous for its magical rituals for strong and eternal love which you can get if you read a love spell over hot tea yourself on one of the days of fasting. In order to make a person fall in love with you and become the most beautiful, sweet and desirable for him, you need to treat your loved one with this spell for eternity and true love drink. A love spell - a love spell read in Petrov's post for tea, will strongly and forever bind your beloved boyfriend, husband, or man to you as soon as he drinks a sip of tea for which a love spell is made. Words of a love spell that need to be whispered over

On the feast of the Annunciation of the Blessed Virgin Mary, which occurs on April 7, there are many folk traditions and believe. Many women and girls read a strong conspiracy prayer to the Most Holy Theotokos on the Feast of the Annunciation with only one goal - to get married profitably and quickly mutual love and live with your husband all your life in love, peace and harmony. You can read the text of the appeal to the Mother of God for marriage on the day of the Annunciation at home, standing in front of her icon. It is not at all necessary to learn the words by heart, you can read them from paper, but this must be done without mistakes. Annunciation ritual for marriage and strong love Simple enough to do it yourself. As stated earlier

A love spell read on your own on honey spas will greatly bewitch your loved one and will help you strongly and forever make the guy or man you like fall in love with you. Rituals and rituals that are carried out on the day of honey salvation according to the tradition of our ancestors are very effective and have an instant magical effect. If you have a loved one in mind or vice versa not suitable man and no one gets married, on Honey Spas, read the plot and perform a simple but very good ritual ceremony for love. A spell to fall in love is done at home. Early in the morning, on a honey salon, let your hair down and standing (sitting) in front of a mirror in which the whole head is reflected, apply honey

The most powerful love spell for instant love must be read during Lent. Many people are interested in whether it is possible to read conspiracies and perform magical rituals on major church holidays. The unequivocal answer is yes, you can. If you urgently need to bewitch your loved one once and for all, do a simple ceremony for marriage yourself and read a strong love spell when your big day comes. strict fast. Spells will teach you how to make the most powerful spell for eternal love that will instantly (at the same moment) bewitch your loved one and force him to propose marriage and get married quickly. The plot is read on a piece of rye

Mermaid week is famous summer holiday Ivan Kupala, it is on the day of Kupala that the most powerful love conspiracy is committed. According to tradition, on the evening before Ivan Kupala, a beautiful girl who wants to get married quickly and profitably must independently perform an ancient marriage ceremony that takes place on the night of Kupala. A ritual performed according to the tradition of our ancestors on Kupala with the reading of a plot for love and early marriage will help you get married. The magic of bathing night is very strong, which is why this holiday is so often mentioned in epics and stories. How to perform a ritual for love and marriage on Midsummer's Day, conspiracies will be explained further. For the ritual you need any candle that

A simple ritual and a strong conspiracy for love and marriage, made independently on Trinity Sunday, will help you quickly marry your loved one and forever bewitch a guy or man to you. A love spell on the Holy Trinity is done once in a lifetime and forever captivates a person with a feeling of strong love and a desire to start a family and get married quickly. On Trinity Sunday, perform the following ritual: take holy water from the church and, bringing the water home, say a spell on it with the words of a prayer for

To get married quickly and successfully, you need to read a prayer spell for love and quick marriage on Krasnaya Gorka. Red Hill is St. Thomas Week immediately after Easter Sunday, or the first Sunday after Easter. This is a very old love spell ritual that helps any woman or girl quickly get married and make the guy or man she likes fall in love with her. To do this, you just need to read a spell in church and magic words love spells that will speed up your wedding and this same year you will be able to successfully and out of love marry the person you like

Self read strong prayer- a conspiracy for love and quick marriage on the day of the Ascension of the Lord allows you to quickly and successfully get married. A love spell on the church holiday of Ascension should be read only in church, where a magical ritual for love is performed. Buy 2 candles in the church for yourself and the person you want to bewitch. By placing 2 candles at the crucifix a love spell is said - a prayer for a happy and mutual

A strong love spell in the name of a person that you can do yourself by reading a spell for love has not lost popularity these days. Knowing him, it’s very easy to read a love spell by calling the name of the one you love and in this way bewitch a person without his photo. With the help of a spell, you can quickly bewitch any person: a man or a guy, or maybe you need to bewitch a woman or a girl without her photo - knowing this love spell, you can easily do this too. All that is required for a love spell is knowing the name of your loved one! Today we will teach you how to make a strong love spell on a name that you need to read on your own and even at home

At the moment when it's raining It's time to read a love spell spell that evokes strong love in another person. Even in the old days, it was noticed that spells during the rain have enormous power and if you read a love spell for a loved one for rain, he will instantly fall in love with the one who read the love spell for raindrops. If you need to bewitch your beloved guy or man yourself, perform the following ritual. In rainy weather, go to the window in your house or apartment and, opening the window wide, say the words of the love spell

Many newlyweds are concerned about what to do with wedding candles or a towel after the wedding? Store carefully? But not everyone is sentimental. Throw it away? The hand doesn't rise. After all, these objects are witnesses to the sacred sacrament that united you with your loved one!.. And what do traditions say?

Wedding candles

Church candles have special symbolism. This is not just a light dancing on the end of a wax stick! A burning candle is the embodiment of our faith, fiery prayers and requests with which we turn to God. And in your case, it is also a sign of marriage, incorporating happy emotions, hopes and dreams that filled the hearts of the young at the altar. Is it possible to burn it or throw it away like an ordinary cinder?! Even if both spouses are inveterate pragmatists, they are unlikely to dare to do such an act.

What should you do after a church wedding with this important attribute of the sacrament? Traditions dictate that the candles be taken home, carefully wrapped in a clean handkerchief and left behind the icon with which the parents blessed the couple for marriage. However, which image to choose and the method of storage depends on the wishes of the spouses. You can do without a scarf or, for example, pack the cinders in a paper bag, away from dust and direct sun rays. The main thing is to find a place for storage that is clean and pious - use a desk drawer or Kitchen Cabinet undesirable.

Whenever a disagreement arises between spouses, one of them falls ill or is forced to go on a long business trip, candles are taken out from behind the icons and lit for a short time. Just enough to pray from the bottom of your heart for your soulmate, and, looking at the light, to resurrect in your heart the feeling of unity and joy that you experienced in church.

Wedding candles are kept in the family all their lives, and when the time comes for the spouses to go to another world, the cinders are placed in a coffin or burned. You didn't know about the custom and burned both candles? Don't worry, no trouble will happen. Even though this is an important symbol of a family union, it is not what determines happiness in marriage, but God’s grace and the mutual efforts of husband and wife.

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What to do with the towel after the wedding? There are even more options:

• Use it as a napkin wedding icons– both elegant and a worthy place for an iconic item.
• Fold it and put it away in your closet so you can take it out when celebrating important family dates. In the old days, it was the norm to pass skillfully embroidered colorful wedding towels from parents to children, and even in our time, many people support this glorious tradition. Maybe it will take root in your family too?
• Take it to the temple. There, the towel will be given to less wealthy couples or used at the discretion of the clergyman.

What to do with a towel after the wedding so that it serves to strengthen the marriage? Just like candles, a wedding towel is taken out in moments of strife and sorrow. Some lie down and cover their heads, some put them under the pillow. And others closely examine the bright patterns of the towel, while reading a prayer or remembering pleasant moments of marriage. One way or another, the meaning is always the same: calm down, be in silence and try to tune in to a peaceful mood. A moment of respite taken at the right time can reduce the conflict that flared up to zero and strengthen mental strength person in the hour of trial.

What you cannot do after the wedding is fall into fetishism. Traditions are traditions, but common sense has not been canceled. If it so happens that candles, a towel or other thing you left as a memory of holiday, were lost, this will in no way affect the quality of family life. Yours family happiness depends on you, and not on a piece of wax or a piece of fabric.